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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 373321" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>I'm sorry for the hurt. I would be outraged if my husband looked at adoption sites without a conversation with me. Fortunately, this child is growing inside of you and it gives you the choice of how you want to deal with this baby. On the other hand, if birth control isn't used, pregnancy usually happens. Maybe he feels like he was duped. </p><p>Do you think he isn't taking bipolar medications? Not that this is bipolar behavior but that the impulsiveness is making him speak before he thinks? Lots of people aren't happy about an unexpected pregnancy at first. They adjust and their thinking changes. The difference is most folks know to keep these hurtful emotions to themselves. </p><p></p><p>Maybe the fact that he is working 2 jobs to make ends meet has him worried and overwhelmed. If he is a loving husband normally, give him a chance to work through this. Hopefully you will both have an adult conversation about the issues and how as a couple you will both deal with them. In the end, you can't make him want a pregnancy or another child but he has to take on challenges just as all of us adults must and make the best of it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 373321, member: 3"] I'm sorry for the hurt. I would be outraged if my husband looked at adoption sites without a conversation with me. Fortunately, this child is growing inside of you and it gives you the choice of how you want to deal with this baby. On the other hand, if birth control isn't used, pregnancy usually happens. Maybe he feels like he was duped. Do you think he isn't taking bipolar medications? Not that this is bipolar behavior but that the impulsiveness is making him speak before he thinks? Lots of people aren't happy about an unexpected pregnancy at first. They adjust and their thinking changes. The difference is most folks know to keep these hurtful emotions to themselves. Maybe the fact that he is working 2 jobs to make ends meet has him worried and overwhelmed. If he is a loving husband normally, give him a chance to work through this. Hopefully you will both have an adult conversation about the issues and how as a couple you will both deal with them. In the end, you can't make him want a pregnancy or another child but he has to take on challenges just as all of us adults must and make the best of it. [/QUOTE]
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