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<blockquote data-quote="brandyf" data-source="post: 88806" data-attributes="member: 4110"><p>thank god for you guys. this has been very hard, his whole life really...gets better, then worse, then better...and so on. i know you guys know what i am talking about. seems like your the only ones sometimes. i have lost lifelong friends, family members...neighbors over difficult child. its been a struggle.</p><p></p><p>well, the same day that she called me about breaking this pencils. once he gotten home from school, he said i got on red today..bla bla...same ole' ole', so i tried to ignore it adn talk about teh good. well, at the same time my daughter (9yearold), mentioned that morning they had an assembly at 9am for teh first graders to have their performance one last time for the kids and parents who werent able to come to the evening performance the night before. we were all there the night before to see the show and difficult child stood their like a little soldier and sung his heart out. we were so proud and made sure he knew it. the principal was there as well and mentioned how well he had done. his teacher however, missed the performance.</p><p></p><p>ok, so then back to what i was saying, i guess the next morning my girl told me that they hadnt even made it thru the first song and she yanked difficult child off the bleachers in front of the entire crowd. i asked my daughter if she knew why, she said she hadnt noticed what difficult child was doing. then difficult child tells me that it was because a little girl he was standing by had dropped her bracelet on the bleacher and he was bending over trying to get it for her.</p><p></p><p>well, that threw me thru the roof. i called the school (this was about 15 minutes after school had let out that day). i demanded to speak to his teacher. i mentioned the assembly, she immediately tells me that later she realized he was only trying to help a classmate, but she didnt know at the time, she thought he was playing with the other kid's feet or something...so now she "apologizes for that". i said "ms. phillips, that is neither here nor there at this point. what do i have to do to get difficult child removed from your class?". she got defensive said that would be up to the principal but that she thought all classes were totally maxed out. seh wanted me to try and talk to difficult child, my husband over the weekend, have difficult child write about what is bothering him.... call her on monday morning adn we will all just have an "intervention" is what seh called it. difficult child will be at my moms tomorrow morning. i am not putting him thru this because she is going Occupational Therapist (OT) get it.</p><p></p><p>i have spent the weekend going thru all the papers, writing things down that have happened both good and bad and the dates...put them all in a binder like suggested. i am getting ready to go downstairs to find the ones from preschool adn kindergarten. i should have done this long ago.</p><p></p><p>i am going Occupational Therapist (OT) mention getting an evaluation to teh school tomorrow in the meeting and see how they respond. i have had many meetings iwth the principal over the years about difficult child behavior, me needing advise and never have they mentioned an evaluation.</p><p></p><p>i had no idea the process before coming to this board. thank you guys.</p><p></p><p>our psychiatric mentioned last week, asking if i thought i was ready to start an evaluation process, i told her yes, if one more thing happened at the school i would have no other choice. i need for them to lay off of him before they really corupt him....so, i dont think i am going to have a problem getting one independently.</p><p></p><p>but still, i need to send the certified letter for protection of my child, but can still go thru with our own intervention, right?</p><p></p><p>any other advise you all would have for me i truley appreciate adn am in your debt.</p><p></p><p>thank you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="brandyf, post: 88806, member: 4110"] thank god for you guys. this has been very hard, his whole life really...gets better, then worse, then better...and so on. i know you guys know what i am talking about. seems like your the only ones sometimes. i have lost lifelong friends, family members...neighbors over difficult child. its been a struggle. well, the same day that she called me about breaking this pencils. once he gotten home from school, he said i got on red today..bla bla...same ole' ole', so i tried to ignore it adn talk about teh good. well, at the same time my daughter (9yearold), mentioned that morning they had an assembly at 9am for teh first graders to have their performance one last time for the kids and parents who werent able to come to the evening performance the night before. we were all there the night before to see the show and difficult child stood their like a little soldier and sung his heart out. we were so proud and made sure he knew it. the principal was there as well and mentioned how well he had done. his teacher however, missed the performance. ok, so then back to what i was saying, i guess the next morning my girl told me that they hadnt even made it thru the first song and she yanked difficult child off the bleachers in front of the entire crowd. i asked my daughter if she knew why, she said she hadnt noticed what difficult child was doing. then difficult child tells me that it was because a little girl he was standing by had dropped her bracelet on the bleacher and he was bending over trying to get it for her. well, that threw me thru the roof. i called the school (this was about 15 minutes after school had let out that day). i demanded to speak to his teacher. i mentioned the assembly, she immediately tells me that later she realized he was only trying to help a classmate, but she didnt know at the time, she thought he was playing with the other kid's feet or something...so now she "apologizes for that". i said "ms. phillips, that is neither here nor there at this point. what do i have to do to get difficult child removed from your class?". she got defensive said that would be up to the principal but that she thought all classes were totally maxed out. seh wanted me to try and talk to difficult child, my husband over the weekend, have difficult child write about what is bothering him.... call her on monday morning adn we will all just have an "intervention" is what seh called it. difficult child will be at my moms tomorrow morning. i am not putting him thru this because she is going Occupational Therapist (OT) get it. i have spent the weekend going thru all the papers, writing things down that have happened both good and bad and the dates...put them all in a binder like suggested. i am getting ready to go downstairs to find the ones from preschool adn kindergarten. i should have done this long ago. i am going Occupational Therapist (OT) mention getting an evaluation to teh school tomorrow in the meeting and see how they respond. i have had many meetings iwth the principal over the years about difficult child behavior, me needing advise and never have they mentioned an evaluation. i had no idea the process before coming to this board. thank you guys. our psychiatric mentioned last week, asking if i thought i was ready to start an evaluation process, i told her yes, if one more thing happened at the school i would have no other choice. i need for them to lay off of him before they really corupt him....so, i dont think i am going to have a problem getting one independently. but still, i need to send the certified letter for protection of my child, but can still go thru with our own intervention, right? any other advise you all would have for me i truley appreciate adn am in your debt. thank you. [/QUOTE]
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