Could Use a Bit of Prayer

Discussion in 'The Watercooler' started by Hound dog, Feb 4, 2008.

  1. Hound dog

    Hound dog Nana's are Beautiful

    easy child has been trying to get pregnant since Darrin was 18 mos old. She had a painful and tragic miscarriage almost 2 yrs ago and hasn't been able to get pregnant again.

    easy child is becoming desperated for another child.

    easy child is on day 90 of her menstral cycle. No period, no spotting. I think when she was more than 2 wks late she did a home preg test, it came back neg. She went to doctor because she still didn't start and got a blood test. It also came back neg. She was once again devistated. But doctor told her at that time to come back if she went to 90 days and he'd check her again.

    So, tomorrow she goes for the blood test again. She also took a home preg test last night. She got a really faint line saying it was pos. She took the second test this morning and got the same thing.

    easy child is terrified to get her hopes up. That last miscarriage hit her hard, and I don't think she's delt well with it at all. And can't get her to go talk to someone about it.

    easy child also got the faint line when it was pos with Darrin. She was 3 mos when she took the test the first time with him.

    easy child and sister in law are wonderful parents. easy child adores children. I would love to see her have another child.

    So if you have a moment, just say a little prayer for her please. It hurts me to watch her go thru this pain.

  2. dreamer

    dreamer New Member

    my prrayers are going up.......
  3. witzend

    witzend Well-Known Member

    I think it's wonderful that she is such a devoted mother. We need more parents like her.
  4. mrscatinthehat

    mrscatinthehat Seussical

    Prayers...and hugs..

  5. totoro

    totoro Mom? What's a GFG?

    Aww I hope it is positive. I am a big believer in the, once you stop trying, then it happens philosophy... it happened for husband and me and many others I know!

    I will be sending +++++ Positive thoughts!
  6. Kjs

    Kjs Guest

    sending prayers. i too had a miscarriage when i so desperatly wanted a baby. Then took forever. I remember the doctor telling me it takes time. Then came difficult child. A true "gift". He was meant to be with us.

    I couldn't believe the feeling of loss, the greiving, with a miscarriage.

    Hope it is good news.
  7. Fran

    Fran Former desparate mom

    Sending good thoughts. Hoping that if she is that it is carried to fruition. I know it's tough to grieve through a miscarriage and move on sometimes.
    After trying for a while to have a second I finally decided that having one strong healthy child was all that I was getting and that was good.
    Of course, I got pregnant soon after.
    Doesn't make it easier for your easy child.
  8. nvts

    nvts Active Member

    Saying many prayers here in ny.

    I know the feeling about a miscarriage, I know the feeling...

    but "good things come to those who wait"!!!

    Keep the chin up, those faint lines can tell you plenty!!!

  9. SearchingForRainbows

    SearchingForRainbows Active Member

    I'll be keeping your easy child in my thoughts and prayers... When I was pregnant with difficult child 1, all I got was faint lines on the at home test I did. I know the at home tests have come a long way since then, but I'm praying those faint lines are excellent news!!! WFEN
  10. WhymeMom?

    WhymeMom? No real answers to life..

    Saying prayers for your daughter.........hoping for positive results!!!!!
  11. Lothlorien

    Lothlorien Active Member

    I tested negative for the first two months with Mighty chances are she's positive. Rattling beads!
  12. tiredmommy

    tiredmommy Well-Known Member

    Prayers being said....
  13. Prayers going up for a positive result!
  14. hearts and roses

    hearts and roses Mind Reader

    Sending up some more prayers for that + line!
  15. Star*

    Star* call 911

    Prayers already gone!
  16. Marcie Mac

    Marcie Mac Just Plain Ole Tired

    Will keep your easy child in my thoughts..

  17. Big Bad Kitty

    Big Bad Kitty lolcat

    Sending prayers, "plus signs", and even "multiplication signs" if it will help.
  18. JJJ

    JJJ Active Member

    Prayers sent ...
  19. Coookie

    Coookie Active Member

    Adding my prayers to all the others. :)
  20. Estherfromjerusalem

    Estherfromjerusalem Well-Known Member

    I hope and pray for your easy child that she IS pregnant, and that she carries it through full term.

    Love, Esther