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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 407765" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Haha! I love a good fight! Kudos for challenging them on the IEP retaliation. </p><p></p><p>To Jena: I know people who tried to stay in the same place, but it usually is a lose/lose for the family and kids. They think you are abusive (it's amazing what teacher's assume and talk about in the break room--I have many teachers as family and friends and THEY are appalled by it). If they think you are abusive, for whatever idiotic reasons they invent, they can continue to report you to CPS. It is rare that anyone who is a mandated reporter (or not one) to be told to stop calling CPS. There are no laws against calling about you all the time. And CPS has the perverse, unAmerican view that you are guilty until proven innocent. Even then, some social workers have God complexes and feel the need to prove themselves right.</p><p>If you leave the district, you are showing your daughter that she does not need to stay in abusive situations. Would you stay in a marriage where you got continually clobbered and called false names? No. Why stay in such a school district? Why worry that every time the door rings or there is a strange car in the driveway that it is a social worker without a clue? Yes, I know how it feels. It was eerie the kinds of allegations the social workers made up just to prove herself right. She even said, "Sonic is making a lot of progress, but you and hub are a bad family for him." She had trouble articulating why, but that didn't stop us from nearly having Sonic, who was very attached to us, ripped from our arms.</p><p>You have to make the decision, but I did not stay and I've never been sorry I left. On top of my other stuff with the kids, I didn't need some crazy social worker threatening to take Sonic from us. Heck, I know people who HAVE lost their children and shouldn't have. Go with your gut.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 407765, member: 1550"] Haha! I love a good fight! Kudos for challenging them on the IEP retaliation. To Jena: I know people who tried to stay in the same place, but it usually is a lose/lose for the family and kids. They think you are abusive (it's amazing what teacher's assume and talk about in the break room--I have many teachers as family and friends and THEY are appalled by it). If they think you are abusive, for whatever idiotic reasons they invent, they can continue to report you to CPS. It is rare that anyone who is a mandated reporter (or not one) to be told to stop calling CPS. There are no laws against calling about you all the time. And CPS has the perverse, unAmerican view that you are guilty until proven innocent. Even then, some social workers have God complexes and feel the need to prove themselves right. If you leave the district, you are showing your daughter that she does not need to stay in abusive situations. Would you stay in a marriage where you got continually clobbered and called false names? No. Why stay in such a school district? Why worry that every time the door rings or there is a strange car in the driveway that it is a social worker without a clue? Yes, I know how it feels. It was eerie the kinds of allegations the social workers made up just to prove herself right. She even said, "Sonic is making a lot of progress, but you and hub are a bad family for him." She had trouble articulating why, but that didn't stop us from nearly having Sonic, who was very attached to us, ripped from our arms. You have to make the decision, but I did not stay and I've never been sorry I left. On top of my other stuff with the kids, I didn't need some crazy social worker threatening to take Sonic from us. Heck, I know people who HAVE lost their children and shouldn't have. Go with your gut. [/QUOTE]
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