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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 407795" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>Having been part of multiple CPS investigations...</p><p> </p><p>They don't have to tell you who it is specifically. If it is a school, hospital, etc., then they must tell you (this is not considered anonymous).</p><p> </p><p>The one we're in now? Abuse and medical neglect. because husband tried to show Onyxx something, it backfired, and we didn't take her to the doctor but had her use aloe gel. Which, by the way, is what the doctor 3 days later said to do... But, this is the FIRST TIME we've gotten a decent case worker. And Jen? You seem to have one. They <em>have</em> to tell you worst-case scenario by law. They <em>don't</em> have to tell you what they <em>think </em>will happen. But what they think will happen? Influences the report they file. IOW, you're being transparent - and, yes, it's a PITA to deal with this, but it is what it is. Used to be you could beat a kid black and blue, and it was discipline... Now, you blink wrong and it's abuse. I understand.</p><p> </p><p>The fact of the matter is, whether you move or not - difficult child and easy child will still have baggage. THAT won't change. Moving, you get away from this school, but then the kids have to make all new friends, you have to go through all the hassle of moving... Among other things. Staying, you may end up having to homeschool most of the time to avoid this; on the other hand, won't difficult child move to a different building at some point?</p><p> </p><p>Hugs, sweetie. Having to deal with CPS hoovers. But just MAYBE, you can get some help...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 407795, member: 6705"] Having been part of multiple CPS investigations... They don't have to tell you who it is specifically. If it is a school, hospital, etc., then they must tell you (this is not considered anonymous). The one we're in now? Abuse and medical neglect. because husband tried to show Onyxx something, it backfired, and we didn't take her to the doctor but had her use aloe gel. Which, by the way, is what the doctor 3 days later said to do... But, this is the FIRST TIME we've gotten a decent case worker. And Jen? You seem to have one. They [I]have[/I] to tell you worst-case scenario by law. They [I]don't[/I] have to tell you what they [I]think [/I]will happen. But what they think will happen? Influences the report they file. IOW, you're being transparent - and, yes, it's a PITA to deal with this, but it is what it is. Used to be you could beat a kid black and blue, and it was discipline... Now, you blink wrong and it's abuse. I understand. The fact of the matter is, whether you move or not - difficult child and easy child will still have baggage. THAT won't change. Moving, you get away from this school, but then the kids have to make all new friends, you have to go through all the hassle of moving... Among other things. Staying, you may end up having to homeschool most of the time to avoid this; on the other hand, won't difficult child move to a different building at some point? Hugs, sweetie. Having to deal with CPS hoovers. But just MAYBE, you can get some help... [/QUOTE]
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