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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 399583" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>I hear you! Thing is, you <em>have</em> to let it roll off. You cannot control her. She does it for the reaction. No reaction? Will make her upset - but you will be serene, calm. BM still does outrageous koi, like when Jett returned the other night and called husband by his name - BM told him he is not allowed to call husband "Daddy" any more (again) - OMG! Yeah, he's back to Daddy. But you know what? The kids pick up on the stress. So I just sat down with Jett and explained - he has two Moms and two Dads, but Mommy (BM) is primary, as is Daddy (husband). Me and (creep, but I don't call him that to Jett), well, we're extra. Twofers. But seriously. I digress - unless she is directly, and I mean directly not through kids - attacking you? Detach from her, too. As for husband - "she wouldn't do anything like that" - is it not RIGHT THERE ON HIS FB PAGE? Sigh. Ostrich syndrome.</p><p> </p><p>And hugs - been there done that - still there - it hoovers. But it's life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 399583, member: 6705"] I hear you! Thing is, you [I]have[/I] to let it roll off. You cannot control her. She does it for the reaction. No reaction? Will make her upset - but you will be serene, calm. BM still does outrageous koi, like when Jett returned the other night and called husband by his name - BM told him he is not allowed to call husband "Daddy" any more (again) - OMG! Yeah, he's back to Daddy. But you know what? The kids pick up on the stress. So I just sat down with Jett and explained - he has two Moms and two Dads, but Mommy (BM) is primary, as is Daddy (husband). Me and (creep, but I don't call him that to Jett), well, we're extra. Twofers. But seriously. I digress - unless she is directly, and I mean directly not through kids - attacking you? Detach from her, too. As for husband - "she wouldn't do anything like that" - is it not RIGHT THERE ON HIS FB PAGE? Sigh. Ostrich syndrome. And hugs - been there done that - still there - it hoovers. But it's life. [/QUOTE]
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