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<blockquote data-quote="Wakegirl" data-source="post: 590209" data-attributes="member: 15912"><p>I have loved reading every one of your replies! I don't know why I allowed him to question myself, or why I allow his feelings to control my feelings. That's something that I'm working on personally. Another part of detachment I suppose. I'm still mesmerized that he's taking it this hard. I have had numerous talks with him about sex. And it being sacred. Also about protection. I have never allowed girls in my home when I'm not home, although the difficult child in him didn't always obey my rule. By the way, have I mentioned in this thread that his girlfriend is pregnant? I guess that watermelon seed she ate is the culprit. And the box of condoms I set in his bathroom where only meant for decoration. And the talks I had with him went in one ear and out the other. Sigh. </p><p></p><p>When difficult child finally came home last night (he timed it to when I go to bed), he spoke no words to me. Nothing. And I didn't speak to him. I did send him a text, because I walked through the kitchen to turn lights out, and noticed he had the oven on. He's horrible about putting something in the oven and then going upstairs. And that makes me uneasy when I'm in going to bed. So I sent a text telling him he needed to hang out downstairs while he's cooking his food. Of course he didn't reply. And of course he didn't come downstairs. So my worried self set my alarm on my phone for 45 minutes, so I could wake up and make sure he turned the oven off. Why didn't I just get up and throw his food away and turn the oven off when he didn't respond to my request? I make things so hard on myself in an effort to not cause confrontation with him. Pitiful...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Wakegirl, post: 590209, member: 15912"] I have loved reading every one of your replies! I don't know why I allowed him to question myself, or why I allow his feelings to control my feelings. That's something that I'm working on personally. Another part of detachment I suppose. I'm still mesmerized that he's taking it this hard. I have had numerous talks with him about sex. And it being sacred. Also about protection. I have never allowed girls in my home when I'm not home, although the difficult child in him didn't always obey my rule. By the way, have I mentioned in this thread that his girlfriend is pregnant? I guess that watermelon seed she ate is the culprit. And the box of condoms I set in his bathroom where only meant for decoration. And the talks I had with him went in one ear and out the other. Sigh. When difficult child finally came home last night (he timed it to when I go to bed), he spoke no words to me. Nothing. And I didn't speak to him. I did send him a text, because I walked through the kitchen to turn lights out, and noticed he had the oven on. He's horrible about putting something in the oven and then going upstairs. And that makes me uneasy when I'm in going to bed. So I sent a text telling him he needed to hang out downstairs while he's cooking his food. Of course he didn't reply. And of course he didn't come downstairs. So my worried self set my alarm on my phone for 45 minutes, so I could wake up and make sure he turned the oven off. Why didn't I just get up and throw his food away and turn the oven off when he didn't respond to my request? I make things so hard on myself in an effort to not cause confrontation with him. Pitiful... [/QUOTE]
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