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crisis time: I think I need to call and have her hopitalized
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<blockquote data-quote="Ropefree" data-source="post: 239478" data-attributes="member: 6271"><p>compassion: yikes how frightening and exhausted you must be. I am a huge fan of calling the crisis line and getting acquainted with what they will do to help this type of situation. What they advise. Clearly if she is unco-opperative and violent then measures appropriate to transport her as is are central to her safty and also to the safty of others.</p><p></p><p>These behaviors are extreme and I feel to neglect to present her as rapidly as possible to psyc evaluation and stablilization and to tolerate these dangerous and damaging assaults is wrong and would not in anyway serve her now or in the future. She is a danger to herself and others and therefor if it is not a psyciatric condition she is criminally engaged in domestic violence and needs to learn appropriate behavior, if she can.</p><p></p><p>Either way these domestic violence lessons are teaching her how to engage her environment in a stymulating chaotic amusement for her. RAge and anger are endulgences when these are not reactive to a true violation. The rules in your home and the disciplinary lessons are for her benefit. And if you are unwilling to fund her cell or she is abusing the priviledge or if you merely do not want her using it for any reason it is yours to do with as you wish.</p><p></p><p>This bully junk doesn't work for me. I am guessing you and your family do not like it either. </p><p></p><p>Here if the teen is violent the out reach won't come. That person coming to meet your family and her is qualified to determine if she needs to be transported under restraint. The police can do this also. </p><p></p><p>It is not your fault. But even if it was your fault...this important...she will not learn to use her creativity in a safe and sane manner without proper self awareness, boundaries and control without the training to do so.</p><p></p><p>To self realize and change is the one thing an abuser is not likely to do without outside intervention. Sometimes unwittingly parents do create the set up that results in dv and the family is completely unaware how that is being done. </p><p></p><p>In family violence education and awareness is the avenue to distinguishing healthy boundaries, respecting the boundaries of others, and safe conflict resolution.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ropefree, post: 239478, member: 6271"] compassion: yikes how frightening and exhausted you must be. I am a huge fan of calling the crisis line and getting acquainted with what they will do to help this type of situation. What they advise. Clearly if she is unco-opperative and violent then measures appropriate to transport her as is are central to her safty and also to the safty of others. These behaviors are extreme and I feel to neglect to present her as rapidly as possible to psyc evaluation and stablilization and to tolerate these dangerous and damaging assaults is wrong and would not in anyway serve her now or in the future. She is a danger to herself and others and therefor if it is not a psyciatric condition she is criminally engaged in domestic violence and needs to learn appropriate behavior, if she can. Either way these domestic violence lessons are teaching her how to engage her environment in a stymulating chaotic amusement for her. RAge and anger are endulgences when these are not reactive to a true violation. The rules in your home and the disciplinary lessons are for her benefit. And if you are unwilling to fund her cell or she is abusing the priviledge or if you merely do not want her using it for any reason it is yours to do with as you wish. This bully junk doesn't work for me. I am guessing you and your family do not like it either. Here if the teen is violent the out reach won't come. That person coming to meet your family and her is qualified to determine if she needs to be transported under restraint. The police can do this also. It is not your fault. But even if it was your fault...this important...she will not learn to use her creativity in a safe and sane manner without proper self awareness, boundaries and control without the training to do so. To self realize and change is the one thing an abuser is not likely to do without outside intervention. Sometimes unwittingly parents do create the set up that results in dv and the family is completely unaware how that is being done. In family violence education and awareness is the avenue to distinguishing healthy boundaries, respecting the boundaries of others, and safe conflict resolution. [/QUOTE]
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