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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 484616" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>DF - </p><p>I do NOT agree with your therapist.</p><p>And yes, I do not know the whole story, but I know enough that... I'm pretty sure this isn't a case of real ODD.</p><p>This is... underlying problems. That there doesn't seem to be a way to address. And that have resulted in relationship problems.</p><p></p><p>Which means... you really can't work on the relationship until you (and she, and the docs) make progress on the base-line issues... whatever those are. The <em>first</em> hook is making a difference in the underlying problems. You don't have that yet.</p><p></p><p>And I agree - loads of tdocs just don't get this picture. They think fixing the relationship will fix everything else. NOT.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 484616, member: 11791"] DF - I do NOT agree with your therapist. And yes, I do not know the whole story, but I know enough that... I'm pretty sure this isn't a case of real ODD. This is... underlying problems. That there doesn't seem to be a way to address. And that have resulted in relationship problems. Which means... you really can't work on the relationship until you (and she, and the docs) make progress on the base-line issues... whatever those are. The [I]first[/I] hook is making a difference in the underlying problems. You don't have that yet. And I agree - loads of tdocs just don't get this picture. They think fixing the relationship will fix everything else. NOT. [/QUOTE]
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