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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 528321" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>There is something going on, something seriously wrong. I highly doubt the air force is going to actually take her. IF she gets to basic, she is going to decompensate and totally break down very fast. It really sounds like some recruiter is playing fast and loose - and this is VERY common with military recruiters. I know quite a few people who were 'accepted' and when they showed up to basic they were sent home iwth reactions like "WTH was the recruiter thinking? no way you are medically cleared to enlist!" </p><p></p><p>i really hope your sister is prepared for this because it sounds like her daughter will then watn to return to her room for the rest of her life. What is going on in a parent that you allow your cihld to do that until age 25? My kid would need to show some heavy duty mental illness for that to happen, and be in treatment. It doesn't seem healthy for the daughter to have lived that way for so long. </p><p></p><p>Part of me wonders about dissociative identity disorder? That much isolation, esp with other mental health disorders in the family, could create some strange and severe problems. She also could be transgender. Given the distance between the family and not dating, it would be strange if you actually did know that she was totally hetero. She might seem that way because she thinks she should. Or not, but maybe her online fantasy life is what she really wants. If so, it sure sounds liek she totally hates and loathes herself, which is sad and she needs real help for. Do her parents truly not see how sick she is? How can they miss how strange and nonfunctional it is to never leave the bedroom for so many years with-o brute force making it happen? </p><p></p><p>I really hope that whatever is going on, the girl gets some help soon. Hopefully the air force will get help rather than just tossing her out. Doubtful, but I can hope. Of course if she goes off the deep end, they may just take her to a psychiatric hospital, which would not be bad from the sound of it. How will your sister react if the AF tosses her daughter out?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 528321, member: 1233"] There is something going on, something seriously wrong. I highly doubt the air force is going to actually take her. IF she gets to basic, she is going to decompensate and totally break down very fast. It really sounds like some recruiter is playing fast and loose - and this is VERY common with military recruiters. I know quite a few people who were 'accepted' and when they showed up to basic they were sent home iwth reactions like "WTH was the recruiter thinking? no way you are medically cleared to enlist!" i really hope your sister is prepared for this because it sounds like her daughter will then watn to return to her room for the rest of her life. What is going on in a parent that you allow your cihld to do that until age 25? My kid would need to show some heavy duty mental illness for that to happen, and be in treatment. It doesn't seem healthy for the daughter to have lived that way for so long. Part of me wonders about dissociative identity disorder? That much isolation, esp with other mental health disorders in the family, could create some strange and severe problems. She also could be transgender. Given the distance between the family and not dating, it would be strange if you actually did know that she was totally hetero. She might seem that way because she thinks she should. Or not, but maybe her online fantasy life is what she really wants. If so, it sure sounds liek she totally hates and loathes herself, which is sad and she needs real help for. Do her parents truly not see how sick she is? How can they miss how strange and nonfunctional it is to never leave the bedroom for so many years with-o brute force making it happen? I really hope that whatever is going on, the girl gets some help soon. Hopefully the air force will get help rather than just tossing her out. Doubtful, but I can hope. Of course if she goes off the deep end, they may just take her to a psychiatric hospital, which would not be bad from the sound of it. How will your sister react if the AF tosses her daughter out? [/QUOTE]
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