Because they need us in our place in order for them to feel OK about themselves. They become anxious when we do not know our place and role and function. Our function: prey. Our place: outside. Our role: Anything they want us to do.
If we stray, their worlds are upset. They need to get us back in our proper place. In their own minds. At their behest.
Look at it in light of what I wrote above. We are a role to them. Their personalities are such that they need to feel as if they have this control in their lives. Anybody can fulfill our role (although we are the primary actors and the most satisfying targets.)
1. Outside. I type of shunning. Rejection. Marginalization.
2. They can do anything they want to us.
3. Under their control to define.
4, Demeaned.
Fill in the blank, Cedar: Priest, lady driver, you, me, Serenity. It is all the same thing.
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