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"Dad, don't tell them anything about me anymore, even if I'm dying"
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 676826" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Wow. Just...wow.</p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry.</p><p></p><p>My father was not there as much as he should have been, but I have never really been that angry at him. I knew he loved me and I saw Mother's abuse of him (and sometimes he abused her, but she usually started it) and I understood why he wasn't at home much. I wasn't home much either once I could escape. I get it. We were the scapegoats. My father did take me to his store a lot, which I enjoyed. He had a pharmacy. He drove me places with my best friend before I could drive. He did not have a golden child, a lost child or a scape goat.</p><p>I did not idolize him. Like everyone, I saw his faults, as well as everyone else's including my own. But I loved him. And when my parents were fighting when I was a kid, secretly, in my head, I was cheering, "Go, Dad!!! Go, go, go!" (This is the truth).</p><p></p><p>Copa, again I am sorry your father was arrogant enough to think you could handle seeing him cheating. Ugh. We are all so lucky we did not catch our FOO's sick diseases.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 676826, member: 1550"] Wow. Just...wow. I'm so sorry. My father was not there as much as he should have been, but I have never really been that angry at him. I knew he loved me and I saw Mother's abuse of him (and sometimes he abused her, but she usually started it) and I understood why he wasn't at home much. I wasn't home much either once I could escape. I get it. We were the scapegoats. My father did take me to his store a lot, which I enjoyed. He had a pharmacy. He drove me places with my best friend before I could drive. He did not have a golden child, a lost child or a scape goat. I did not idolize him. Like everyone, I saw his faults, as well as everyone else's including my own. But I loved him. And when my parents were fighting when I was a kid, secretly, in my head, I was cheering, "Go, Dad!!! Go, go, go!" (This is the truth). Copa, again I am sorry your father was arrogant enough to think you could handle seeing him cheating. Ugh. We are all so lucky we did not catch our FOO's sick diseases. [/QUOTE]
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