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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 728740" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I don't know where you live. Most here are from the U.S .where grandparents don't have rights except in extreme circumstances. I believe one circumstance is if the child lived with you for six months. Then I believe you can fight and win visitation in court. If you dont live in the U.S., check out the laws where you live. I would get a lawyer. You raised him for his first three years. I bet you have rights due to that.</p><p></p><p>This is always hard, especially when grandparents have been there from the start and our grown kids are immature and ungrateful and even mean. I would stop giving her anything. I assume she is grown up. Sometimes when we give too much, although it is out of love, we stunt their growth. And we make them think that they are so important to us that they can wipe their feet on us and we will still jump. Nobody, not even your adult kids, should have the power to ruin your life. Nor would a nice young adult want to do so.</p><p></p><p>I often recommend private therapy for us to teach us coping skills and detachment and how to be kind to ourselves. Many of us do not know how. Many of us however are learning or learned to put our needs first. I recommend reading Codependent No More by Melodie Beattie. Great eye opener!</p><p></p><p>Love and light!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 728740, member: 1550"] I don't know where you live. Most here are from the U.S .where grandparents don't have rights except in extreme circumstances. I believe one circumstance is if the child lived with you for six months. Then I believe you can fight and win visitation in court. If you dont live in the U.S., check out the laws where you live. I would get a lawyer. You raised him for his first three years. I bet you have rights due to that. This is always hard, especially when grandparents have been there from the start and our grown kids are immature and ungrateful and even mean. I would stop giving her anything. I assume she is grown up. Sometimes when we give too much, although it is out of love, we stunt their growth. And we make them think that they are so important to us that they can wipe their feet on us and we will still jump. Nobody, not even your adult kids, should have the power to ruin your life. Nor would a nice young adult want to do so. I often recommend private therapy for us to teach us coping skills and detachment and how to be kind to ourselves. Many of us do not know how. Many of us however are learning or learned to put our needs first. I recommend reading Codependent No More by Melodie Beattie. Great eye opener! Love and light! [/QUOTE]
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