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Daughter is now dancing privately for money. What's next, prostitution?
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<blockquote data-quote="Bean" data-source="post: 413315" data-attributes="member: 8620"><p>Thank you for the support, advice and stories.</p><p></p><p>It is something I have to learn to cope with. I'm hoping once the impact of it wears down a bit I'll be better again. </p><p></p><p>Yes, I wish she were dancing in a club, over doing this in hotel rooms. She has always acted out sexually, and honestly I can't imagine that should would have a hard time charging for what she's constantly giving away for free. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Well, I've said this before I think, but she seems to like to force people into her sexual world. I can't wrap my brain around it.</p><p></p><p>There is always a chance she is lying. She lied about the pregnancy to get money from my mom (she admitted that). If she would like about this to be intentionally hurtful? I don't know. It's really working any ounce of forgiveness I can muster up to have my brain and emotions constantly toyed with. I just don't know. I haven't cried about her in a while, but this broke the dam. </p><p></p><p>She avoids us, or has been for a while. But then she still, in a way, seems to want us to suffer, too.</p><p></p><p>Janet, I never did this either. I had similarities to my daughter's difficult child-ness, but a lot of them ended a long time ago. It makes it difficult to relate.</p><p></p><p>I don't know. I really just don't even know this person anymore. When we talked, I kept reminder her that it is all choices. A year ago when she got off probation she had choices. When she was living with my parents, choices. When she was staying with us even, choices. Even a month ago when she landed another job - choice! A chance for change! She didn't choose change. She chose to lean to her "dancer" friends, reject any move towards growth, and take the route most likely to have difficult consequences. Either she really just likes doing what she's doing, or she's so deep into it she doesn't know how to get out... waiting to get arrested, something. Waiting for the crisis that forces her to change because she can't muster up the energy or determination to do it herself.</p><p></p><p>I continue learning, struggling, to accept the things I can't change.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Bean, post: 413315, member: 8620"] Thank you for the support, advice and stories. It is something I have to learn to cope with. I'm hoping once the impact of it wears down a bit I'll be better again. Yes, I wish she were dancing in a club, over doing this in hotel rooms. She has always acted out sexually, and honestly I can't imagine that should would have a hard time charging for what she's constantly giving away for free. Well, I've said this before I think, but she seems to like to force people into her sexual world. I can't wrap my brain around it. There is always a chance she is lying. She lied about the pregnancy to get money from my mom (she admitted that). If she would like about this to be intentionally hurtful? I don't know. It's really working any ounce of forgiveness I can muster up to have my brain and emotions constantly toyed with. I just don't know. I haven't cried about her in a while, but this broke the dam. She avoids us, or has been for a while. But then she still, in a way, seems to want us to suffer, too. Janet, I never did this either. I had similarities to my daughter's difficult child-ness, but a lot of them ended a long time ago. It makes it difficult to relate. I don't know. I really just don't even know this person anymore. When we talked, I kept reminder her that it is all choices. A year ago when she got off probation she had choices. When she was living with my parents, choices. When she was staying with us even, choices. Even a month ago when she landed another job - choice! A chance for change! She didn't choose change. She chose to lean to her "dancer" friends, reject any move towards growth, and take the route most likely to have difficult consequences. Either she really just likes doing what she's doing, or she's so deep into it she doesn't know how to get out... waiting to get arrested, something. Waiting for the crisis that forces her to change because she can't muster up the energy or determination to do it herself. I continue learning, struggling, to accept the things I can't change. [/QUOTE]
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