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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 733092" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I'm glad you decided what to do.</p><p></p><p>Just my opinion. You can't stop your daughter from being with this boyfriend but he sounds unstable and horrible...if this were my daughter I would do nothing to welcome him over or encourage or help her see him. This is not somebody she needs to be with long term no matter if she thinks she loves him or not. You know tbis Even worse, they are toxic together. Your daughter is not going to get her life together with him. It just won't happen. They will go down together if they don't part ways. They both sound mentally ill. The young man's psychosis is going to be a lifelong challenge and he has already been in jail twice. He has no future. </p><p></p><p>This is not a normal relationship and you can't prevent your daughter from getting wild and crazy, even talking about suicidal when things go wrong with the man. We don't have the ability to stop their angst. We can't even keep them healthy and alive once they are over 18. We can only take care of one person...us. Only ourselves. More than anything else, you need to think about your 15 year old son. His sister could chase him away from the family and even cause him to start acting out. He is still young and needs peace and quiet. Too often the problem child gets too much attention because we think the other kid is okay, but all kids want and deserve equal time and consideration. And he is living a hellish existence.</p><p></p><p>You and your other loved ones are important. I hope your daughter shapes up. Her threats and actions are scary. Violence is never ok for any reason. Your home is supposed to be your sanctuary, not a child's drug snd drinking house and war zone. Sounds like she has substance abuse issues and violence that could hurt you all one day. She will be worse if she just lays around with no professional help and nothing but time on her hands....no job, no diploma, no interests....nothing to aim for. Do be careful.</p><p></p><p>I hope things go well. Love and light!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 733092, member: 1550"] I'm glad you decided what to do. Just my opinion. You can't stop your daughter from being with this boyfriend but he sounds unstable and horrible...if this were my daughter I would do nothing to welcome him over or encourage or help her see him. This is not somebody she needs to be with long term no matter if she thinks she loves him or not. You know tbis Even worse, they are toxic together. Your daughter is not going to get her life together with him. It just won't happen. They will go down together if they don't part ways. They both sound mentally ill. The young man's psychosis is going to be a lifelong challenge and he has already been in jail twice. He has no future. This is not a normal relationship and you can't prevent your daughter from getting wild and crazy, even talking about suicidal when things go wrong with the man. We don't have the ability to stop their angst. We can't even keep them healthy and alive once they are over 18. We can only take care of one person...us. Only ourselves. More than anything else, you need to think about your 15 year old son. His sister could chase him away from the family and even cause him to start acting out. He is still young and needs peace and quiet. Too often the problem child gets too much attention because we think the other kid is okay, but all kids want and deserve equal time and consideration. And he is living a hellish existence. You and your other loved ones are important. I hope your daughter shapes up. Her threats and actions are scary. Violence is never ok for any reason. Your home is supposed to be your sanctuary, not a child's drug snd drinking house and war zone. Sounds like she has substance abuse issues and violence that could hurt you all one day. She will be worse if she just lays around with no professional help and nothing but time on her hands....no job, no diploma, no interests....nothing to aim for. Do be careful. I hope things go well. Love and light! [/QUOTE]
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