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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 710817" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>All i can say is you are an awesome hardworking daughter and you may never make your parents happy. Sounds like they want you to do things for them, not what makes you happy. I do not know your cultural norms but on the U.S. this would be considered by many to be abusive. Yes they paid your bills but at what cost? Did you not make friends in college to see how other families are? Thats an imppryant part of college...friends.</p><p></p><p>Maybe it would be better to take out a loan and go into the field you like rather than having them pay for you to do what THEY want you to do. You in my opinion are best to live your life for yourself, not them. But again perhaps there are cultural differences. If so, this I still think is wrong.</p><p></p><p>I hope you marry your boyfriend one day and build your own family. Then you will have a family on top of Dad and Mom. You are a very good person. Too good maybe. No parent here would call you difficult. You are almost too accomodating in my opinion. You should think more about your own wants and needs.</p><p></p><p>Be well!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 710817, member: 1550"] All i can say is you are an awesome hardworking daughter and you may never make your parents happy. Sounds like they want you to do things for them, not what makes you happy. I do not know your cultural norms but on the U.S. this would be considered by many to be abusive. Yes they paid your bills but at what cost? Did you not make friends in college to see how other families are? Thats an imppryant part of college...friends. Maybe it would be better to take out a loan and go into the field you like rather than having them pay for you to do what THEY want you to do. You in my opinion are best to live your life for yourself, not them. But again perhaps there are cultural differences. If so, this I still think is wrong. I hope you marry your boyfriend one day and build your own family. Then you will have a family on top of Dad and Mom. You are a very good person. Too good maybe. No parent here would call you difficult. You are almost too accomodating in my opinion. You should think more about your own wants and needs. Be well!!! [/QUOTE]
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