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<blockquote data-quote="pigless in VA" data-source="post: 711081" data-attributes="member: 11832"><p>Welcome, amyrena. </p><p></p><p>You are in an tough situation, because you are trying to make your parents happy. I know your parents are old school and have high expectations for you. No matter what you do, they will always expect more. Please accept that you will never be able to make someone else happy. </p><p></p><p>I suspect that to seek counseling for yourself would make them angry. Only you can decide if that is worth the price. I think it would help. If you can't see an actual counselor, keep talking to us here. We're all like free therapists. Each one of us brings something different to the table and a wealth of experience. We are telling you that you are a wonderful daughter, a hardworking person and have great value to the world. Your parents love you, but undoubtedly have great difficulty with allowing you to have your own voice in your own life. We're trying to encourage you to take charge of your own destiny. </p><p></p><p>I do agree with finding out about your citizenship status and rights. I'm with susiestar in suspecting that you must have at least a social security number. You can apply to be a U.S. citizen and that gives you rights with respect to the law. </p><p></p><p>Many warm hugs. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/group-hug.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":group-hug:" title="group hug :group-hug:" data-shortname=":group-hug:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pigless in VA, post: 711081, member: 11832"] Welcome, amyrena. You are in an tough situation, because you are trying to make your parents happy. I know your parents are old school and have high expectations for you. No matter what you do, they will always expect more. Please accept that you will never be able to make someone else happy. I suspect that to seek counseling for yourself would make them angry. Only you can decide if that is worth the price. I think it would help. If you can't see an actual counselor, keep talking to us here. We're all like free therapists. Each one of us brings something different to the table and a wealth of experience. We are telling you that you are a wonderful daughter, a hardworking person and have great value to the world. Your parents love you, but undoubtedly have great difficulty with allowing you to have your own voice in your own life. We're trying to encourage you to take charge of your own destiny. I do agree with finding out about your citizenship status and rights. I'm with susiestar in suspecting that you must have at least a social security number. You can apply to be a U.S. citizen and that gives you rights with respect to the law. Many warm hugs. :group-hug: [/QUOTE]
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