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<blockquote data-quote="Blindsided" data-source="post: 751038" data-attributes="member: 23811"><p>Thank you so much. I have read that book twice. It is very insightful. I have others too. I try to address feelings and set boundaries, but even though I think I am prepared for the response, May finds a new way to hurt me. This is how the texts proceeded after my initial post.</p><p></p><p>Me</p><p>you feel that way. But, I cant change it. I love you.</p><p></p><p>May</p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/8Q9S3cT18Fs" target="_blank">Reba McEntire - I'll Be</a></p><p>I have always loved you.</p><p></p><p>If my tests come back with cancer I don't want you there. Do you. That's all you have ever done.</p><p></p><p>Me </p><p></p><p>Stop the attacks on me, all they do is put me in defense mode. That is not kind and helps nothing.</p><p></p><p>I feel you are lashing out because you are scared. I am scared for you. But, you dont get back with me. I am still waiting to hear what doctor said about your liver tests. What is this test?</p><p></p><p>May</p><p>You really NEVER cease to amaze me with your selfish ways. Really? Liver test or colonoscopy, endoscopy, fibroscan, lactose malabsorption test, [etc. These are liver function/damage tests] Plus pages of blood work I have to get done. You're so smart but thank GOD Aunt S has been there for me therefore if something very bad about comes up you will be informed and that's all I want is for you to be informed.</p><p>Do NOT cry for me because you DO NOT deserve to cry. I love you. You're my mom. You should have been there for me and you never have been.</p><p>Sad.</p><p></p><p>My son and his wife say to block her. I tried that a few years ago and all I did was wonder if she tried to reach out for help. My sibling is a mental health NP who understands Borderline (BPD). She has located a great program which we can all support, but May has made it clear she is not up for any mental health treatment because her problems are all physical. She will not acknowledge her body is sitting down from bohemia and alcoholism. She abuses adderall, which I think exacerbates her delusions.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Blindsided, post: 751038, member: 23811"] Thank you so much. I have read that book twice. It is very insightful. I have others too. I try to address feelings and set boundaries, but even though I think I am prepared for the response, May finds a new way to hurt me. This is how the texts proceeded after my initial post. Me you feel that way. But, I cant change it. I love you. May [URL="https://youtu.be/8Q9S3cT18Fs"]Reba McEntire - I'll Be[/URL] I have always loved you. If my tests come back with cancer I don't want you there. Do you. That's all you have ever done. Me Stop the attacks on me, all they do is put me in defense mode. That is not kind and helps nothing. I feel you are lashing out because you are scared. I am scared for you. But, you dont get back with me. I am still waiting to hear what doctor said about your liver tests. What is this test? May You really NEVER cease to amaze me with your selfish ways. Really? Liver test or colonoscopy, endoscopy, fibroscan, lactose malabsorption test, [etc. These are liver function/damage tests] Plus pages of blood work I have to get done. You're so smart but thank GOD Aunt S has been there for me therefore if something very bad about comes up you will be informed and that's all I want is for you to be informed. Do NOT cry for me because you DO NOT deserve to cry. I love you. You're my mom. You should have been there for me and you never have been. Sad. My son and his wife say to block her. I tried that a few years ago and all I did was wonder if she tried to reach out for help. My sibling is a mental health NP who understands Borderline (BPD). She has located a great program which we can all support, but May has made it clear she is not up for any mental health treatment because her problems are all physical. She will not acknowledge her body is sitting down from bohemia and alcoholism. She abuses adderall, which I think exacerbates her delusions. [/QUOTE]
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