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Daughter uses baby as a weapon
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 673114" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I agree with your husband because you cant chsnge your daughter and I know what its like when family irrationally decides to shun you with no explanation other thsn youre no longer acceptable. My whole family is like this and i am 62 now and finally got it through my thick skull that they need to blame me for whatever, so I accept how they are and have moved on ( no its not easy...took therapy). It is sad about the baby but its her baby and she can sadly torture you with the bsby if she feels like it. And its not your fsult and if she is borderline she will go from being reasinable to cutting you iff. This is called splitting. It is classic in borderline to be cut off for trite or no reason.</p><p></p><p>Im so sorry for your pain. If you can, say as little as you can and enjoy the baby when offered. Focus on your own happiness and your loved ones who can appreciate and return your kindness rather than the one whi cant. Live your life the best you can. You cant change your daughter but you can change how you respond to her behavior. in my opinion groveling makes the sbusers worse so dont.</p><p>Sorry for your hurting heart. We are with you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 673114, member: 1550"] I agree with your husband because you cant chsnge your daughter and I know what its like when family irrationally decides to shun you with no explanation other thsn youre no longer acceptable. My whole family is like this and i am 62 now and finally got it through my thick skull that they need to blame me for whatever, so I accept how they are and have moved on ( no its not easy...took therapy). It is sad about the baby but its her baby and she can sadly torture you with the bsby if she feels like it. And its not your fsult and if she is borderline she will go from being reasinable to cutting you iff. This is called splitting. It is classic in borderline to be cut off for trite or no reason. Im so sorry for your pain. If you can, say as little as you can and enjoy the baby when offered. Focus on your own happiness and your loved ones who can appreciate and return your kindness rather than the one whi cant. Live your life the best you can. You cant change your daughter but you can change how you respond to her behavior. in my opinion groveling makes the sbusers worse so dont. Sorry for your hurting heart. We are with you. [/QUOTE]
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