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<blockquote data-quote="Bunny" data-source="post: 551022"><p>I think that when we first told that CPS might become involved we see it as a negative, but I could be something positive. Your difficult child sounds like she has alot going on.</p><p></p><p>Doesn't it frustrate you when you spend all kinds of time with them, only to be told that you do nothing? My difficult child does that and it drives me up the wall!! But, you also have to understand that alot of times perception is reality. For the longest time difficult child would tell the therapist that no one loved him. Not me. Not his father. Not his grandparents or aunts or uncles. No one. No matter what we did for him it was never good enough for him. We had to spend alot of time with him, getting him to the point where he understands that he is loved a great deal, but there are times when he may not be liked a whole lot because of the things that he says and does to us. And he still doesn't always get that "love" and "like" can be two totally different things.</p><p></p><p>If she is hurting your other children or pet, that is something that needs to be brought to the attention of her psychiatrist. Physical aggression can not be allowed, which is eaiser said than done, I know. We're dealing with that here as well. How does she behave in school? What kind of student is she?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Bunny, post: 551022"] I think that when we first told that CPS might become involved we see it as a negative, but I could be something positive. Your difficult child sounds like she has alot going on. Doesn't it frustrate you when you spend all kinds of time with them, only to be told that you do nothing? My difficult child does that and it drives me up the wall!! But, you also have to understand that alot of times perception is reality. For the longest time difficult child would tell the therapist that no one loved him. Not me. Not his father. Not his grandparents or aunts or uncles. No one. No matter what we did for him it was never good enough for him. We had to spend alot of time with him, getting him to the point where he understands that he is loved a great deal, but there are times when he may not be liked a whole lot because of the things that he says and does to us. And he still doesn't always get that "love" and "like" can be two totally different things. If she is hurting your other children or pet, that is something that needs to be brought to the attention of her psychiatrist. Physical aggression can not be allowed, which is eaiser said than done, I know. We're dealing with that here as well. How does she behave in school? What kind of student is she? [/QUOTE]
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