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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 370091"><p>Oh I hear you. My husband is similar. When the kids were younger he would forget the rules...pretty hard to enforce the rules if you don't remember what they are. It took a while for the two of us to get on the same page completely. Things started getting bad enough that he partly got there himself....the other part is I dragged him to my therapist with me. What was hard for him to get i think was that we were not helping my son by enabling him. Seriously what lessons is your daughter learning if she can live there and just nor obey the rules, or be violent or disrespectful. That is what became clear to me, that the situation and the messages ne was getting was not good for him and his future.</p><p></p><p>Since monsoon has been out of the house he has messed up a lot and has several charges against him he is having to deal with. He has found a friend to stay with and so far as far as I know has not burned those bridges. His friends dadnis helping him deal with things.</p><p></p><p>The tension and resentment and feeling in our house is so much better without him here.</p><p></p><p>I hope your husband can get on the same page soon...it sounds like he needs a bit of a push to get there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 370091"] Oh I hear you. My husband is similar. When the kids were younger he would forget the rules...pretty hard to enforce the rules if you don't remember what they are. It took a while for the two of us to get on the same page completely. Things started getting bad enough that he partly got there himself....the other part is I dragged him to my therapist with me. What was hard for him to get i think was that we were not helping my son by enabling him. Seriously what lessons is your daughter learning if she can live there and just nor obey the rules, or be violent or disrespectful. That is what became clear to me, that the situation and the messages ne was getting was not good for him and his future. Since monsoon has been out of the house he has messed up a lot and has several charges against him he is having to deal with. He has found a friend to stay with and so far as far as I know has not burned those bridges. His friends dadnis helping him deal with things. The tension and resentment and feeling in our house is so much better without him here. I hope your husband can get on the same page soon...it sounds like he needs a bit of a push to get there. [/QUOTE]
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