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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 370160" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>I agree 100% with witz. Honestly, I did have that discussion last night with my husband too, told him again I do not want it to come down to a choice but if he continues to do nothing, he WILL be choosing her. because I won't be around for him to choose! I think that might be what got through.</p><p> </p><p>But I deal with resentment a lot - resentment that husband doesn't have to get up in the morning as early as I do. Resentment that it feels like I do all the housework (to be fair, husband does ALL the outside stuff - I do NONE of it - but the kids, well...) Resentment that I do more for the kids than BM does. Resentment that I get treated like koi. The whole resentment thing is normal, I think - because without a difficult child in our lives, we could have/do/be _____________ (fill in the blank).</p><p> </p><p>HUGS. And maybe husband does not understand this? Mine didn't.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 370160, member: 6705"] I agree 100% with witz. Honestly, I did have that discussion last night with my husband too, told him again I do not want it to come down to a choice but if he continues to do nothing, he WILL be choosing her. because I won't be around for him to choose! I think that might be what got through. But I deal with resentment a lot - resentment that husband doesn't have to get up in the morning as early as I do. Resentment that it feels like I do all the housework (to be fair, husband does ALL the outside stuff - I do NONE of it - but the kids, well...) Resentment that I do more for the kids than BM does. Resentment that I get treated like koi. The whole resentment thing is normal, I think - because without a difficult child in our lives, we could have/do/be _____________ (fill in the blank). HUGS. And maybe husband does not understand this? Mine didn't. [/QUOTE]
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