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Death, moving 5 houses, invesigation, job loss - life is depleting me
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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 449879" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>((((HUGS)))) No, you are absolutely NOT complaining. You are still mourning. Not just the loss of your Dad, but your job and your life due to difficult child issues. in my opinion it's as if you kept having things piled on top of you one right after the other so you haven't had the chance to mourn and let go and move on. You've <strong>had</strong> to function.</p><p></p><p>Have you explored grief counseling? Have you 'allowed' yourself to indulge in sufficient "pity parties". Have you considered a vacation or even a staycation? It can be short, but remove yourself from all those things that HAVE to be done, and just focus on finding your own joy.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Your Dad is still with you, influencing you EVERY day. Your reservoir needs to be replenished. Not for the things that HAVE to get done - you seem to have that part down pat. Literally, stop and smell the roses on occasion. Stop to see the smallest details and smallest things that can bring the joy back to your life.</p><p></p><p>((((HUGS))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 449879, member: 11965"] ((((HUGS)))) No, you are absolutely NOT complaining. You are still mourning. Not just the loss of your Dad, but your job and your life due to difficult child issues. in my opinion it's as if you kept having things piled on top of you one right after the other so you haven't had the chance to mourn and let go and move on. You've [B]had[/B] to function. Have you explored grief counseling? Have you 'allowed' yourself to indulge in sufficient "pity parties". Have you considered a vacation or even a staycation? It can be short, but remove yourself from all those things that HAVE to be done, and just focus on finding your own joy. Your Dad is still with you, influencing you EVERY day. Your reservoir needs to be replenished. Not for the things that HAVE to get done - you seem to have that part down pat. Literally, stop and smell the roses on occasion. Stop to see the smallest details and smallest things that can bring the joy back to your life. ((((HUGS)))) [/QUOTE]
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