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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 747546" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I feel sad for him that this has happened. </p><p></p><p>Maybe this has touched something in him -- some bottom -- and he will recognize that he does want things, even though he has lost parental rights. I am impressed that at the end he fought for himself and his child, alone, when the deck was stacked. But the thing is, he was a day late and a dollar short. This is not your responsibility to pay for a last ditch effort. </p><p></p><p>While he should appeal, I don't see how your paying is the right thing. He needs to find the solutions in himself, the way to turn this around. Because turning this around means turning himself around. We have seen over and over again that what we do does not work. I am very, very sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 747546, member: 18958"] I feel sad for him that this has happened. Maybe this has touched something in him -- some bottom -- and he will recognize that he does want things, even though he has lost parental rights. I am impressed that at the end he fought for himself and his child, alone, when the deck was stacked. But the thing is, he was a day late and a dollar short. This is not your responsibility to pay for a last ditch effort. While he should appeal, I don't see how your paying is the right thing. He needs to find the solutions in himself, the way to turn this around. Because turning this around means turning himself around. We have seen over and over again that what we do does not work. I am very, very sorry. [/QUOTE]
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