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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 162153" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>M23 - </p><p> </p><p>I'm so sorry this is happening to you during such a rough time with your Mom. Please know you and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers. </p><p> </p><p>As a friend on the outside looking in I have to ask you - are you SURE you are ready to deal with the current situation of your difficult child daughter, AND another younger difficult child in your grandson? That's a very lot to ask of one person who isn't 20 and is looking very soon at living her life with her husband to go and do as she pleases. I hope this doesn't make you mad, but I just wonder if all this drama isn't a sign of what is going to happen if you adopt your grandson and take him out of foster care where he's currently not privy to all the chaos? </p><p> </p><p>I think at this point if you get involved again in knowing about your daughter you become less detached. But on the other side of the coin - if you don't help her - who will? Certainly not the world. And lastly you have to ask yourself HOW far do you want to get involved in all of this? She's your daughter - you know her. Is she GOING to allow you to step in and suggest or help? </p><p> </p><p>You really are between the hardest place and a rock and i'm so sorry. It breaks my heart to see a parent so willing to reach out and help a child that is so disabled she's unable to recognize it. Maybe you could have her Baker acted into a psychiatric. hospital and appointed her guardian. Then again if you would have to do something like that are you really going to be any better off with her? </p><p> </p><p>Dillusions are not just part of schizophrenia or schizo affective disorder. The fact that her biodad was schizophrenic could genetically be a strike, but without a test how are you ever going to know? And the test CPS does certainly arent' going to give you the answers - unless MAYBE you told them that since you were going to adopt her child - you really wanted to know about HER mental background for HIS sake in helping get a good start in diagnosis for him and his apparent disorders. Maybe that would work.???? </p><p> </p><p>I dunno - huge hugs. Sending peace of mind and well wishes for your Mom's health. </p><p> </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 162153, member: 4964"] M23 - I'm so sorry this is happening to you during such a rough time with your Mom. Please know you and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers. As a friend on the outside looking in I have to ask you - are you SURE you are ready to deal with the current situation of your difficult child daughter, AND another younger difficult child in your grandson? That's a very lot to ask of one person who isn't 20 and is looking very soon at living her life with her husband to go and do as she pleases. I hope this doesn't make you mad, but I just wonder if all this drama isn't a sign of what is going to happen if you adopt your grandson and take him out of foster care where he's currently not privy to all the chaos? I think at this point if you get involved again in knowing about your daughter you become less detached. But on the other side of the coin - if you don't help her - who will? Certainly not the world. And lastly you have to ask yourself HOW far do you want to get involved in all of this? She's your daughter - you know her. Is she GOING to allow you to step in and suggest or help? You really are between the hardest place and a rock and i'm so sorry. It breaks my heart to see a parent so willing to reach out and help a child that is so disabled she's unable to recognize it. Maybe you could have her Baker acted into a psychiatric. hospital and appointed her guardian. Then again if you would have to do something like that are you really going to be any better off with her? Dillusions are not just part of schizophrenia or schizo affective disorder. The fact that her biodad was schizophrenic could genetically be a strike, but without a test how are you ever going to know? And the test CPS does certainly arent' going to give you the answers - unless MAYBE you told them that since you were going to adopt her child - you really wanted to know about HER mental background for HIS sake in helping get a good start in diagnosis for him and his apparent disorders. Maybe that would work.???? I dunno - huge hugs. Sending peace of mind and well wishes for your Mom's health. Star [/QUOTE]
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