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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 598641" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I'm sorry, Dixie. That's an awful lot of bad juju for one person at one time. If TK wants to stay with her dad, then that is what she chooses, even at 8 years old. All you can do is be sure that they are all being watched.</p><p></p><p>As for Boyo, I don't think I would tell him not to call your hubs "daddy". He IS his daddy. Your ex isn't there, and that's what happens when you're not there. If your ex was visiting continually, it would be different, but he should not expect such a young child to understand the subtleties of that.</p><p></p><p>Your difficult child sister should not be stealing your mom's medications, but adults do it all the time. It's a felony, and someone should turn her in. Your mom's doctor won't prescribe if he knows that it's just going to a junkie without any recourse, and your mom needs the medications. If your mom won't turn her in, you should. Your sister may not even be using the medications, she may be selling and/or trading up.</p><p></p><p>I'm holding good thoughts for you and your family that things will start to fall into place. Don't feel badly if you have to "nag" your hub to get phone calls made. He's ill and may not be able to do those things without your support. Don't think of it as nagging, it's support. He has that diagnosis now, and if he really can't make those calls that you need, see if he will give you a temporary POA to make those calls. It shouldn't be this hard - although I know that the VA is impossible...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 598641, member: 99"] I'm sorry, Dixie. That's an awful lot of bad juju for one person at one time. If TK wants to stay with her dad, then that is what she chooses, even at 8 years old. All you can do is be sure that they are all being watched. As for Boyo, I don't think I would tell him not to call your hubs "daddy". He IS his daddy. Your ex isn't there, and that's what happens when you're not there. If your ex was visiting continually, it would be different, but he should not expect such a young child to understand the subtleties of that. Your difficult child sister should not be stealing your mom's medications, but adults do it all the time. It's a felony, and someone should turn her in. Your mom's doctor won't prescribe if he knows that it's just going to a junkie without any recourse, and your mom needs the medications. If your mom won't turn her in, you should. Your sister may not even be using the medications, she may be selling and/or trading up. I'm holding good thoughts for you and your family that things will start to fall into place. Don't feel badly if you have to "nag" your hub to get phone calls made. He's ill and may not be able to do those things without your support. Don't think of it as nagging, it's support. He has that diagnosis now, and if he really can't make those calls that you need, see if he will give you a temporary POA to make those calls. It shouldn't be this hard - although I know that the VA is impossible... [/QUOTE]
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