Hmm where to start. Tk has decided to stay with her dad. Or her dad has convinced her to stay which amounts to the same thing. She is going to visit her grand mother in alabama coincidentally enough the weekend that her and boyo were supposed to come stay with me. Boyo is still coming, he misses me and hubs and has asked continuously since he's been there for us and has called hubs daddy and its p*ssing ex off at me. Although I have corrected him before and said he can only call hubs step daddy. But hubs has been with him since he was a year and a half years old has fed him changed him helped potty train him bathed him played ball with him, and ex for many reasons hasn't, mostly distance but other reasons too. I'm not making a big issue of it because right now that might be the best place for her, tk. (Badly worded paragraph) Got some paperwork for her from the insurance company and I'm going to try to get her testing done before we leave here. Going to try to get boyo in pre k if we are still here. I don't know we have no further information. The truck that we are trying to sell the battery died so we can't sell it no one is calling right now anyway. Have to get some money in before we can buy a new battery. The letter we sent off two weeks ago we received a letter saying our application has been received for the veterans bonus and they are reviewing the supporting documentation we sent. They weren't terrible specific about what documents to send so we sent deployment and active duty orders without bothering his commander. Ohio child support services that we spoke to less than a month ago sent us a letter asking for all his payment information again. When we spiked to them last they told us we didn't owe anything and they were holding the money he has paid since December in case ex wife got custody back. Which as of Sunday she did not have custody back. They implied last time there was a distinct possibility we would get that money back or at least they would quit taking money until they decided what to do with it. He says he will call tomorrow and I hope he doesn't make me nag the hell out of him. I was desperately hoping when I saw both the envelopes in the mail box today that at least one would be a check. It caused a few tears on my part that it wasn't, which I think hurt hubs feelings that I was so upset, he feels like these things are all his fault. We desperately need to catch up a bill or two and the nest egg fund remains empty for our flight from here whenever that is.... My mom who is in Georgia has broken her shoulder, difficult child adult sister is not helping her and has stolen mom's pain pills mom doesn't have co pay to see orthopedic surgeon until next month. My brother who has always been the successful one who by the way owes my mom money from when she had money after my dad died. Well anyway he's working for the tiniest percentage of what he ordinarily makes $13.00 an hour versus upwards of $60 grand a year and considers himself lucky to have a job at all. We got a copy of hubs medical records today and officially he was diagnosed schizophrenic affective disorder, psychosis, personality disorder without agoraphobia (which I disagree with as getting him out of the house is a chore) pre hypertensive, alcoholism in remission, nicotine dependency, deviated septum acquired, oh half a dozen other things. But no medication board!!!! Seemingly at least, I am so angry! Apparently this happens at ft Carson quite often as it made the news and a sgt is being discharged dishonorably who has full blown PTSD who durn near killed his wife. But I ask what does the army expect when they aren't treating the mental disease? Do they expect the soldier to just be hunky dory with kids and wife? We as veterans are dangerous people walking around with demons in our heads, not healthy for our families. I have had a very hard time sleeping this week, have been sleeping in the day which isn't good for me or the baby or hubs as I am the one who keeps the house functioning. We managed to buy everything we needed and had money left over but a stop payment I put in on my car payment which is over paid at present went through anyway and they have frozen the account till they get their head out of their butt. Another words who knows when and will they fix it? Sorry to be glum but this is what's going on in my world.