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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 320398" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I just wonder how long it will take to get a decision and if she had to ask for a specific date or just permission to let difficult child out sometime in Jan. and she can pick the date. The CM had told me that this higher-up Department of Juvenile Justice group meets once a week and it would take two meetings to get this approved. I have no idea why but if they don;t receive it until next week and if by chance they don't have a meeting next week due to TG, that puts the decision off a month. Assuming the job comes thru, I can't wait a month to tell them when I will be there. I also don't want to be in mid-December paying for and scheduling airplane flights to HI. I've been reading and seeing that the cost is going up pretty high for the holidays and are not expected to come back down for flights after the holidays, so the sooner I can get them the better.</p><p></p><p>The security officer knows difficult child is incarcerated with Department of Juvenile Justice but I really don't think I can tell the HR agent that I need to wait a few weeks to tell her when I can be there because it will depend on when Department of Juvenile Justice will release difficult child. I guess if I'd asked for difficult child to get released right before Christmas and they agreed to it, it wouldn't have made a difference in when I can go and I could tell them the end of Dec either way. But I didn't think there would be a very good chance of them agreeing to an early release that is 2 months eaarlier than planned instead of 6 weeks, and to ask for difficult child to be released right before the holidays almost makes it sound bogus.</p><p></p><p>I sent a letter to the therapist today. I have really been concerned about this family therapy sending the wrong messages to difficult child. I think therapist has her own issues so I hope this letter doesn't put her on the defensive. I waited until I was objective as I could be instead of emotional and just wrote my concerns in order to minimize the chances of her takiung it as an attack on her, but I figure I have a right to tell her that I am concerned that my son is getting the message that "I drove him to pull a knife on me because my rules are too strict". He didn't go to school so he didn't get to go out with friends- and that drove him to this? BS!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 320398, member: 3699"] I just wonder how long it will take to get a decision and if she had to ask for a specific date or just permission to let difficult child out sometime in Jan. and she can pick the date. The CM had told me that this higher-up Department of Juvenile Justice group meets once a week and it would take two meetings to get this approved. I have no idea why but if they don;t receive it until next week and if by chance they don't have a meeting next week due to TG, that puts the decision off a month. Assuming the job comes thru, I can't wait a month to tell them when I will be there. I also don't want to be in mid-December paying for and scheduling airplane flights to HI. I've been reading and seeing that the cost is going up pretty high for the holidays and are not expected to come back down for flights after the holidays, so the sooner I can get them the better. The security officer knows difficult child is incarcerated with Department of Juvenile Justice but I really don't think I can tell the HR agent that I need to wait a few weeks to tell her when I can be there because it will depend on when Department of Juvenile Justice will release difficult child. I guess if I'd asked for difficult child to get released right before Christmas and they agreed to it, it wouldn't have made a difference in when I can go and I could tell them the end of Dec either way. But I didn't think there would be a very good chance of them agreeing to an early release that is 2 months eaarlier than planned instead of 6 weeks, and to ask for difficult child to be released right before the holidays almost makes it sound bogus. I sent a letter to the therapist today. I have really been concerned about this family therapy sending the wrong messages to difficult child. I think therapist has her own issues so I hope this letter doesn't put her on the defensive. I waited until I was objective as I could be instead of emotional and just wrote my concerns in order to minimize the chances of her takiung it as an attack on her, but I figure I have a right to tell her that I am concerned that my son is getting the message that "I drove him to pull a knife on me because my rules are too strict". He didn't go to school so he didn't get to go out with friends- and that drove him to this? BS! [/QUOTE]
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