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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 320403" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Well I have thought about that and I would except for two things- 1) and the biggest one here- I have to live with difficult child expecting this from me and he already had a habit of trying to blame me for his agression towards me and his breaking the law so I'm not about to let him come home still thinking that I'm buuying into that, and 2) the therapist is a junior member; the psychiatric that I talked with when difficult child was first transferred there is much more qual'd and she seemed to "get it" and she is the head-honcho over this therapist and I have learned that this therapist goes to that psychiatric for breifing her about difficult child, to get input, etc, so I'm thinking that therapist will discuss the lettere with the psychiatric and anyone in their right mind will see that I have valid concerns- not that I am perfect or that some efforts from all sides (including me) doesn't need to be made- just that I have valid concerns. </p><p></p><p>The director said she was already tarting the process to get difficult child released early- or to get it approved- so I don't think the therapist had any input or will effect this. I stopped short of saying I was afraid of difficult child in my letter to therapist- I just expressed my concerns and asked that she help us work thru the blame and anger and said I was confident that we could work on privileges ourselves as we got answers to where school requirements, if we are going to be living in HI, etc, and reminded her that there was a pattern to difficult child's problems and it did not seem to me to be a result of my house rules.</p><p></p><p>I definitely won't push it though because it isn't worth it at this point- in 3 months we have met 3 times so at this rate, it's not going to get very far anyway, especially if difficult child is getting out in 6 weeks or so.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 320403, member: 3699"] Well I have thought about that and I would except for two things- 1) and the biggest one here- I have to live with difficult child expecting this from me and he already had a habit of trying to blame me for his agression towards me and his breaking the law so I'm not about to let him come home still thinking that I'm buuying into that, and 2) the therapist is a junior member; the psychiatric that I talked with when difficult child was first transferred there is much more qual'd and she seemed to "get it" and she is the head-honcho over this therapist and I have learned that this therapist goes to that psychiatric for breifing her about difficult child, to get input, etc, so I'm thinking that therapist will discuss the lettere with the psychiatric and anyone in their right mind will see that I have valid concerns- not that I am perfect or that some efforts from all sides (including me) doesn't need to be made- just that I have valid concerns. The director said she was already tarting the process to get difficult child released early- or to get it approved- so I don't think the therapist had any input or will effect this. I stopped short of saying I was afraid of difficult child in my letter to therapist- I just expressed my concerns and asked that she help us work thru the blame and anger and said I was confident that we could work on privileges ourselves as we got answers to where school requirements, if we are going to be living in HI, etc, and reminded her that there was a pattern to difficult child's problems and it did not seem to me to be a result of my house rules. I definitely won't push it though because it isn't worth it at this point- in 3 months we have met 3 times so at this rate, it's not going to get very far anyway, especially if difficult child is getting out in 6 weeks or so. [/QUOTE]
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