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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 331011" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Thanks guys. No Susie I had not thought about talking to an attny. I am so hyper focused on getting through this one minute at a time that never occurred to me. Thanks for the suggestion.</p><p></p><p>I really appreciate all of your support. I am actually OK if Matt refuses - I am OK with anything - as long as it is real, and his choice. I have thought through this long and hard & now, for me, the very worst scenario is being controlled by others - anything else are his life choices.</p><p></p><p>I know that one of the only reasons that this program has refused to let us communicate is because I make waves when things are not going as they should - and they don't want to be held accountable. It is sad, but obvious. I am a single mom that they feel they can blackmail and rule in order to not have to be accountable or for that matter "bothered" with my concerns. And let's face it - Matt is one of their most difficult kids - so they kind of have had me over a barrel. Or so they thought. I had to comply, or Matt would have nowhere to go. They didn't expect me to say - oh well - too bad he has nowhere to go - I am not playing this game. I told the ed cons yesterday that I personally could not do this anymore - and he said "well this is not about you" - and I said - actually it is - it is about BOTH of us and our mental well being.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 331011, member: 3301"] Thanks guys. No Susie I had not thought about talking to an attny. I am so hyper focused on getting through this one minute at a time that never occurred to me. Thanks for the suggestion. I really appreciate all of your support. I am actually OK if Matt refuses - I am OK with anything - as long as it is real, and his choice. I have thought through this long and hard & now, for me, the very worst scenario is being controlled by others - anything else are his life choices. I know that one of the only reasons that this program has refused to let us communicate is because I make waves when things are not going as they should - and they don't want to be held accountable. It is sad, but obvious. I am a single mom that they feel they can blackmail and rule in order to not have to be accountable or for that matter "bothered" with my concerns. And let's face it - Matt is one of their most difficult kids - so they kind of have had me over a barrel. Or so they thought. I had to comply, or Matt would have nowhere to go. They didn't expect me to say - oh well - too bad he has nowhere to go - I am not playing this game. I told the ed cons yesterday that I personally could not do this anymore - and he said "well this is not about you" - and I said - actually it is - it is about BOTH of us and our mental well being. [/QUOTE]
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