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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 611675" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>dstc, I agree with everything MWM has written. All I can add to her post is that grief hits us at odd times and you've had a lot of losses lately. I think it's accumulative. You moved which is a huge stressor, your relationship with your parents and your difficult child has undergone a tremendous change and the holidays which represent 'family' to most of us is upon us. That's a lot. It's probably not a good idea to make any rash decisions now while you feel the way you do, it's one of those times where it appears you have to ride this wave of sorrow until it ends. I'm sorry, you really have lost a lot in a very short amount of time.</p><p></p><p>Like MWM, I have made choices which keep me detached from most of my family and it was very hard and very sad, but over time, I realized, as MWM said, that I really hadn't lost anything or anyone who was loving and kind and good to me. It just took time. </p><p></p><p>I'm sorry you're hurting, it's a sad situation ...........it is what it is, you can't change it or make it different. Sending hugs........</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 611675, member: 13542"] dstc, I agree with everything MWM has written. All I can add to her post is that grief hits us at odd times and you've had a lot of losses lately. I think it's accumulative. You moved which is a huge stressor, your relationship with your parents and your difficult child has undergone a tremendous change and the holidays which represent 'family' to most of us is upon us. That's a lot. It's probably not a good idea to make any rash decisions now while you feel the way you do, it's one of those times where it appears you have to ride this wave of sorrow until it ends. I'm sorry, you really have lost a lot in a very short amount of time. Like MWM, I have made choices which keep me detached from most of my family and it was very hard and very sad, but over time, I realized, as MWM said, that I really hadn't lost anything or anyone who was loving and kind and good to me. It just took time. I'm sorry you're hurting, it's a sad situation ...........it is what it is, you can't change it or make it different. Sending hugs........ [/QUOTE]
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