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Desperate Mom needing advise with adult daughter of 22 with Borderline (Borderline (BPD))
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<blockquote data-quote="strangeworld" data-source="post: 749997" data-attributes="member: 22313"><p>I'm so sorry you are going through this. I have a daughter that exhibits most of the symptoms of Borderline (BPD) and she herself said she believes she has it. She had her "first" psychiatry appointment today, not really her first but first in many years. It can be a nightmare when they rage. It's all about her. She is refusing to grow up. She's living in our home and we set the bar so low it is basically as long as you don't rage at us you can live here. We witnessed her raging at her boyfriend the other day then running after him begging him to stay. She had obviously been drinking. Anyway, I'm not trying to make this post about me...sorry about that. Just wanted you to know you ate not alone. Borderline (BPD) is treatable and manageable if they want to help themselves. I'm really struggling with liking my daughter these days. Everything about her just makes me sad and then I feel guilty for those feelings. There's no effort to move forward on her part. If I had not made the psychiatric appointment it would not have happened. She was obnoxious today in the car on the way there and when we arrived. She makes me feel depressed being around her. I realize I don't have the loving relationship other mothers have with their daughters and I am experiencing what I feel is grief over it. I know it's only a matter of time before she will be asked to.leave unless a miracle happens and she actually decides to leave on her own. She has another physical illness that requires stability and twice weekly injections so I want her to allow her to live with us during this time. It's so hard knowing what the right thing to do is when mental health is involved.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="strangeworld, post: 749997, member: 22313"] I'm so sorry you are going through this. I have a daughter that exhibits most of the symptoms of Borderline (BPD) and she herself said she believes she has it. She had her "first" psychiatry appointment today, not really her first but first in many years. It can be a nightmare when they rage. It's all about her. She is refusing to grow up. She's living in our home and we set the bar so low it is basically as long as you don't rage at us you can live here. We witnessed her raging at her boyfriend the other day then running after him begging him to stay. She had obviously been drinking. Anyway, I'm not trying to make this post about me...sorry about that. Just wanted you to know you ate not alone. Borderline (BPD) is treatable and manageable if they want to help themselves. I'm really struggling with liking my daughter these days. Everything about her just makes me sad and then I feel guilty for those feelings. There's no effort to move forward on her part. If I had not made the psychiatric appointment it would not have happened. She was obnoxious today in the car on the way there and when we arrived. She makes me feel depressed being around her. I realize I don't have the loving relationship other mothers have with their daughters and I am experiencing what I feel is grief over it. I know it's only a matter of time before she will be asked to.leave unless a miracle happens and she actually decides to leave on her own. She has another physical illness that requires stability and twice weekly injections so I want her to allow her to live with us during this time. It's so hard knowing what the right thing to do is when mental health is involved. [/QUOTE]
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