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Desperate Mom needing advise with adult daughter of 22 with Borderline (Borderline (BPD))
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<blockquote data-quote="Desperate_Mom" data-source="post: 750000" data-attributes="member: 24176"><p>Thanks for your message and advise. Yes, you are right I need to find out what makes me happy which right now i have no idea. Just been through a hectic divorce where he was just like my daughter, demanded my attention, full of liars and similar personality to her. Although I met him and married him quickly all in a space of 3 years. Now it's time for ME. I just find it so hard to stop enabling as she threatens me and then cuts herself and then i have huge medical bills. What I have done is told her she will go to a government hospital if she cuts herself again and I have also told her that I cannot afford to support her smoking habits as it's making me broke and being single I actually cannot afford it. So i told her she can get the cheap ones 4 a week and a little petrol until she gets a job and can get her own brand. I also told her to stop asking for money everday - I just need to be firm, she is very good at manipulating me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Desperate_Mom, post: 750000, member: 24176"] Thanks for your message and advise. Yes, you are right I need to find out what makes me happy which right now i have no idea. Just been through a hectic divorce where he was just like my daughter, demanded my attention, full of liars and similar personality to her. Although I met him and married him quickly all in a space of 3 years. Now it's time for ME. I just find it so hard to stop enabling as she threatens me and then cuts herself and then i have huge medical bills. What I have done is told her she will go to a government hospital if she cuts herself again and I have also told her that I cannot afford to support her smoking habits as it's making me broke and being single I actually cannot afford it. So i told her she can get the cheap ones 4 a week and a little petrol until she gets a job and can get her own brand. I also told her to stop asking for money everday - I just need to be firm, she is very good at manipulating me. [/QUOTE]
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