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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 752469" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Hi and welcome.Your situation is sad and hard. I would first call a family law attorney to find out your options. Hurting animals is a very scary red flag and if he hates your daughter how can he live with you? I am thinking that maybe due to all his loss he suffers attachment disorder or conduct disorder. Or both. Can't blame him.</p><p></p><p>Maybe he needs to go into a residential treatment center to grieve and to get treatment before joining a new family. Since you didn't adopt him, maybe you would not have to pay for him to get help. Because of the trauma and loss it may be years before anyone can see who he really is. From your description he does not seem ready to or interested in being your child. Not yet.Time will tell. Wherever he goes you can stay involved, I assume. Or he can be prepped to go to another family or facility. Up to you.</p><p></p><p>Foster care is another option.</p><p></p><p>You need to protect your children and your pets, but you can do it without forgetting about him. You can parent from a distance.</p><p></p><p>Let us know your thoughts after you read our suggestions. We will support you no matter what.</p><p></p><p>If God is in your life this is a good time to lean on Him and pray.</p><p></p><p>Be well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 752469, member: 23706"] Hi and welcome.Your situation is sad and hard. I would first call a family law attorney to find out your options. Hurting animals is a very scary red flag and if he hates your daughter how can he live with you? I am thinking that maybe due to all his loss he suffers attachment disorder or conduct disorder. Or both. Can't blame him. Maybe he needs to go into a residential treatment center to grieve and to get treatment before joining a new family. Since you didn't adopt him, maybe you would not have to pay for him to get help. Because of the trauma and loss it may be years before anyone can see who he really is. From your description he does not seem ready to or interested in being your child. Not yet.Time will tell. Wherever he goes you can stay involved, I assume. Or he can be prepped to go to another family or facility. Up to you. Foster care is another option. You need to protect your children and your pets, but you can do it without forgetting about him. You can parent from a distance. Let us know your thoughts after you read our suggestions. We will support you no matter what. If God is in your life this is a good time to lean on Him and pray. Be well. [/QUOTE]
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