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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 712893" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>It doesnt matter if they are or arent narcicists. They are upsetting the family unit. As a parent it is hard to see our dreams fall away. But they are OUR dreams....not theirs.</p><p></p><p>Most families are not as close as yours is. Especially in this day and age. Personality is partly DNA. How is their biological father? Or mayne grandparents? Maybe they are more like a different family members personality.</p><p></p><p>Nature is usually stronger than nurture. If not, we love our kids so much yet the adult kids who bring us here are nothing like the loving, thriving people we raised them to be....the ones who bring us here do not share our values, interests and desires. Thats why it happens...DNA. And sometimes, yes, personality disorders too.</p><p></p><p>In my own life, I have decuded it doesnt matter WHY. It just IS. You do best accepting that this is the way things are and to move on. You cant change other people. Nobody has control over what life throws at us. We all learn many lessons. The hard lessons teach us the most.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 712893, member: 1550"] It doesnt matter if they are or arent narcicists. They are upsetting the family unit. As a parent it is hard to see our dreams fall away. But they are OUR dreams....not theirs. Most families are not as close as yours is. Especially in this day and age. Personality is partly DNA. How is their biological father? Or mayne grandparents? Maybe they are more like a different family members personality. Nature is usually stronger than nurture. If not, we love our kids so much yet the adult kids who bring us here are nothing like the loving, thriving people we raised them to be....the ones who bring us here do not share our values, interests and desires. Thats why it happens...DNA. And sometimes, yes, personality disorders too. In my own life, I have decuded it doesnt matter WHY. It just IS. You do best accepting that this is the way things are and to move on. You cant change other people. Nobody has control over what life throws at us. We all learn many lessons. The hard lessons teach us the most. [/QUOTE]
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