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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar I" data-source="post: 47657" data-attributes="member: 3755"><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: katmom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> </p><p></p><p>I quit looking to the past and trying to answer the why. I quit making excuses and looked for solutions---not for him, but for me and the other members of my family. </p><p></p><p>His lies and manipulation are his problem. His drug abuse is his problem. My problem is how I choose to react to his actions. </p><p></p><p></div></div></p><p></p><p>That was very nicely put, katmom.</p><p></p><p>I took out the things you had to say about guilt ~ but I should have left those comments in, too.</p><p></p><p>Your words exactly describe where I am with all this today. </p><p></p><p>And the key phrases had to do with disallowing guilt.</p><p></p><p>Barbara</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar I, post: 47657, member: 3755"] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: katmom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> I quit looking to the past and trying to answer the why. I quit making excuses and looked for solutions---not for him, but for me and the other members of my family. His lies and manipulation are his problem. His drug abuse is his problem. My problem is how I choose to react to his actions. </div></div> That was very nicely put, katmom. I took out the things you had to say about guilt ~ but I should have left those comments in, too. Your words exactly describe where I am with all this today. And the key phrases had to do with disallowing guilt. Barbara [/QUOTE]
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