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Detaching from the people in our children's lives?
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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 300105"><p>I would consider talking with your adult child about the finances if and only if you strongly suspect there was inappropriate goings on with the money. If you are absolutely sure of this, I would considering talking with the person the SSI payee and give her a chance to clean up her act. If it continues, you are sure of it, I would quietly call SSI. Then...walk away and forget about it. Perhaps six months from now, ask your husband if he thinks it is still going on and if so, would like to call SSI. But, let's face it, there is only so much you can do. Encourage your difficult child to take action, make a call or two if you are certain or wrong doing....but that is where it ends. Don't get overly involved, and don't let it bother you. Refuse to let it bother you...you can not control other people. Do what you can to distract yourself from this turmoil. (Hugs)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 300105"] I would consider talking with your adult child about the finances if and only if you strongly suspect there was inappropriate goings on with the money. If you are absolutely sure of this, I would considering talking with the person the SSI payee and give her a chance to clean up her act. If it continues, you are sure of it, I would quietly call SSI. Then...walk away and forget about it. Perhaps six months from now, ask your husband if he thinks it is still going on and if so, would like to call SSI. But, let's face it, there is only so much you can do. Encourage your difficult child to take action, make a call or two if you are certain or wrong doing....but that is where it ends. Don't get overly involved, and don't let it bother you. Refuse to let it bother you...you can not control other people. Do what you can to distract yourself from this turmoil. (Hugs) [/QUOTE]
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