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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 171711" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Hugs.</p><p>Maybe this is just not the time to get married, but a couple of years from now it will be? There is nothing that says you cannot continue to date, right? Just not merge households? If so, I can see the logic in that. </p><p></p><p>It was terribly traumatic for difficult child when I got re-married. He acted up and out worse than he ever had in his life. Ultimately our marriage ended because of the stress it all put on a brand new marriage. And difficult child was rocked to his core by losing yet another male influence in his life. If I had to do it over again, I would have never married, just dated this man until difficult child was ready to move out on his own. Retrospectively my life, and difficult children, would have been so much better.</p><p></p><p>Take some time to think all of this through. Sometimes marriage and the merge of households and siblings is not always the best thing - sometimes it is wise to wait until children are not involved.</p><p></p><p>Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 171711, member: 3301"] Hugs. Maybe this is just not the time to get married, but a couple of years from now it will be? There is nothing that says you cannot continue to date, right? Just not merge households? If so, I can see the logic in that. It was terribly traumatic for difficult child when I got re-married. He acted up and out worse than he ever had in his life. Ultimately our marriage ended because of the stress it all put on a brand new marriage. And difficult child was rocked to his core by losing yet another male influence in his life. If I had to do it over again, I would have never married, just dated this man until difficult child was ready to move out on his own. Retrospectively my life, and difficult children, would have been so much better. Take some time to think all of this through. Sometimes marriage and the merge of households and siblings is not always the best thing - sometimes it is wise to wait until children are not involved. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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