I've written before about the young lady that was supposed to become my bonus child (stepchild). Tonight, I went over to her father (my fiance's) house. She was diagnosed today with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). Her new psychiatrist told my fiance that we'd have to break it off. On one hand, I admire him for sacrificing for his child. On the other selfish hand, I'm devastated and angry, because I've just lost the man I love.