OMG I'm so happy about this, I'm almost giddy! I talked with therapist and psychiatrist and asked, if it were a perfect world and they could provide any service they wanted to for difficult child, what would it be. I then took that to DevPed and said "this is what they want. I agree. Are you willing to make the referal?" She just replied and said YES! She is looking into what therapy is available at the autism center that fits what therapist and psychiatrist requested, but she said YES! Hopefully she won't yank us around by sticking him in some mediocre therapies, but we'll cross that bridge if it comes. For now, I'm celebrating! We can get him into additional therapy and forget trying additional medications for now. WOOHOO!!!