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Diagnosis = Heartbreak
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<blockquote data-quote="Jabberwockey" data-source="post: 641169" data-attributes="member: 18238"><p>This will be difficult. My wife, Lil, is having a tough time with this as well. We had a discussion the other night about our difficult child and I reminded her of the article on detatchment. Her response was that she didnt want to become that detatched from her son. She will get there eventually but for right now is too focused on who she thought he should become to truly acknowledge who he actually is.</p><p> </p><p>Just remember, nobody is perfect. Nobody knows everything. Nobody knows everything you have gone through. People on this site will give you good advice but not all of it will necessarily pertain to you. Take what you need, modify if necessary, and ignore what you dont. Our advice is based on our experiences. Even though your situation is similar to someone else's, its not the same. That and, like my wife and I, we are all at different stages of the grieving process. Welcome and take care of yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jabberwockey, post: 641169, member: 18238"] This will be difficult. My wife, Lil, is having a tough time with this as well. We had a discussion the other night about our difficult child and I reminded her of the article on detatchment. Her response was that she didnt want to become that detatched from her son. She will get there eventually but for right now is too focused on who she thought he should become to truly acknowledge who he actually is. Just remember, nobody is perfect. Nobody knows everything. Nobody knows everything you have gone through. People on this site will give you good advice but not all of it will necessarily pertain to you. Take what you need, modify if necessary, and ignore what you dont. Our advice is based on our experiences. Even though your situation is similar to someone else's, its not the same. That and, like my wife and I, we are all at different stages of the grieving process. Welcome and take care of yourself. [/QUOTE]
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