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Diagnosis = Heartbreak
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 641199" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>This sad syndrome reminds me the wife who did everything possible for her husband...everything he asked...worked a tiring job to put him through college, stuck with him lovingly through the lean days, soothed him when he was upset, put up with his anger and made excuses for it, never ever didn't have a hot meal ready for him, and kept an immaculate house. She let him drive the BMW while she drove the ten year old beater then he'd yell at her about when it would break down. She didn't know how to drive. It was all her fault the car needed a new part. Yet she understood because he works so hard and had some mental health problems, like maybe depression. She begged him to get help, but he wouldn''t. Still, she never even thought of leaving him. She loved him too much.</p><p></p><p>But the husband went on Match.com and ran off with another, younger woman anyway, after he achieved success, and bad mouths his "ex" to everyone who will listen, telling any ear around how much she abused him. He is so convincing that people have told her about it and even chastised her. He is so graphic about her abuse that she wonders if he REALLY believes his own words. Maybe he does.</p><p></p><p>It really isn't any different when our kids had all of our love and then tell everyone that they didn't, or even that they were abused. It's twisted reality.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 641199, member: 1550"] This sad syndrome reminds me the wife who did everything possible for her husband...everything he asked...worked a tiring job to put him through college, stuck with him lovingly through the lean days, soothed him when he was upset, put up with his anger and made excuses for it, never ever didn't have a hot meal ready for him, and kept an immaculate house. She let him drive the BMW while she drove the ten year old beater then he'd yell at her about when it would break down. She didn't know how to drive. It was all her fault the car needed a new part. Yet she understood because he works so hard and had some mental health problems, like maybe depression. She begged him to get help, but he wouldn''t. Still, she never even thought of leaving him. She loved him too much. But the husband went on Match.com and ran off with another, younger woman anyway, after he achieved success, and bad mouths his "ex" to everyone who will listen, telling any ear around how much she abused him. He is so convincing that people have told her about it and even chastised her. He is so graphic about her abuse that she wonders if he REALLY believes his own words. Maybe he does. It really isn't any different when our kids had all of our love and then tell everyone that they didn't, or even that they were abused. It's twisted reality. [/QUOTE]
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