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<blockquote data-quote="flutterbee" data-source="post: 56398"><p>If your dad didn't live with you, I'd say it's perfectly acceptable for him to take only your biological children on a trip. But since he does live with you and is a fixture in the lives of ALL of your children, to routinely single out a couple kids out isn't fair to the others and is going to cause a lot of tension and hurt feelings. As far as what you discuss with your husband, I agree with the others: that's your prerogative. </p><p></p><p>If he's going to only take 2 kids at a time - not an out of line request as 6 kids are a lot to deal with - then he should take 2 different kids than he took last year and take the remaining 2 next year.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry that he can't see how this affects the other kiddos - and you, as well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterbee, post: 56398"] If your dad didn't live with you, I'd say it's perfectly acceptable for him to take only your biological children on a trip. But since he does live with you and is a fixture in the lives of ALL of your children, to routinely single out a couple kids out isn't fair to the others and is going to cause a lot of tension and hurt feelings. As far as what you discuss with your husband, I agree with the others: that's your prerogative. If he's going to only take 2 kids at a time - not an out of line request as 6 kids are a lot to deal with - then he should take 2 different kids than he took last year and take the remaining 2 next year. I'm sorry that he can't see how this affects the other kiddos - and you, as well. [/QUOTE]
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