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<blockquote data-quote="aeroeng" data-source="post: 233720" data-attributes="member: 6557"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Yes, I also constantly get blamed for any and everything that bothers my difficult child's. You make so many sacrifices and only get the blame. For me what helps the most is not lessening to it. Bite my toung and walk away. The only reason we did not also have a screaming match last night was because when he slammed the door in my face I just turned and left. (Got my husband, who went back and dealt with him). difficult child was very angry I just left, but calmed down before the morning came. Then I tell my self (over and over) it is his disorder which is nothing I can control. It hurts but when he is not acting rational arguing won't help, only grind it in deeper. That said, when he follows me around pushing all the buttons (and he knows were they are), it is very hard not to respond so you can't be perfect and don't worry if your not. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Your thoughts are scarry and won't help you help your difficult child. Please do get some support for that. </span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="aeroeng, post: 233720, member: 6557"] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Times New Roman]Yes, I also constantly get blamed for any and everything that bothers my difficult child's. You make so many sacrifices and only get the blame. For me what helps the most is not lessening to it. Bite my toung and walk away. The only reason we did not also have a screaming match last night was because when he slammed the door in my face I just turned and left. (Got my husband, who went back and dealt with him). difficult child was very angry I just left, but calmed down before the morning came. Then I tell my self (over and over) it is his disorder which is nothing I can control. It hurts but when he is not acting rational arguing won't help, only grind it in deeper. That said, when he follows me around pushing all the buttons (and he knows were they are), it is very hard not to respond so you can't be perfect and don't worry if your not. [/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Times New Roman]Your thoughts are scarry and won't help you help your difficult child. Please do get some support for that. [/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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