Hi Tish,
I have been exactly where you are more than a few times. I'm sorry you are having to deal with it. I've always said there is no roller coaster on this planet that can compare to the ups and downs our difficult child's put us through.
I found when my son was in jail (numerous times) that the best way for me to communicate with him was through letters. I was able to take time with my thoughts and not have to deal with his interruptions. I would type it out on the computer then I would hand write it.
Of course he wants to come back home. In his mind you will take him back and his life will be easy, no cares in the world. That choice is entirely up to you and your husband. Myself, having been down that road a few times, there is no way I would let my son come back home. I cannot and will not have someone in my home that I can't trust. I also know that if we would have let our son come back home all he would do is sponge off of us as he has no desire to work. You and your husband deserve to live in your home in peace.
It's a tough place to be and my heart goes out to you.
