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<blockquote data-quote="dcwsaranac" data-source="post: 140142" data-attributes="member: 4746"><p>I like the idea of talking to the girl's dad. </p><p></p><p>Kids are going to start developing relationships at that age. Lust is going to be a problem. Dealing with the hormones is going to be a challenge.</p><p></p><p>Sounds like dad is well aware of the risks and is drawing a firm line. Perhaps he can provide some insight as to what he see's in the relationship and how his ex is handling it.</p><p></p><p>Time for a(nother) sex talk with your son? An open discussion about discovering one's sexuality (as he has clearly demonstrated with the hickey) might do a world of good. </p><p></p><p>A thought here: If she laid the hickey on him, she may well be the sexual aggressor. Boys are weak (I know, I am one). If she gets his hormones worked up, he's very likely going to do something that everyone may regret later. </p><p></p><p>Talk to him, fortify him, let him know that he can (and should) set a personal limit that respects himself, his girlfriend, and your family values. </p><p>I speak from personal experience, and wish my parents had had that talk with me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dcwsaranac, post: 140142, member: 4746"] I like the idea of talking to the girl's dad. Kids are going to start developing relationships at that age. Lust is going to be a problem. Dealing with the hormones is going to be a challenge. Sounds like dad is well aware of the risks and is drawing a firm line. Perhaps he can provide some insight as to what he see's in the relationship and how his ex is handling it. Time for a(nother) sex talk with your son? An open discussion about discovering one's sexuality (as he has clearly demonstrated with the hickey) might do a world of good. A thought here: If she laid the hickey on him, she may well be the sexual aggressor. Boys are weak (I know, I am one). If she gets his hormones worked up, he's very likely going to do something that everyone may regret later. Talk to him, fortify him, let him know that he can (and should) set a personal limit that respects himself, his girlfriend, and your family values. I speak from personal experience, and wish my parents had had that talk with me. [/QUOTE]
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