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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 140151"><p>I know they are supervised, obviously not as much as they should be. I know he is not allowed there on some days when mom is working late, or running errands.</p><p> </p><p>We do talk often. He is such a little 8th grader. Hard for me to see him even hugging someone. I am afaid of his reaction to hormones, love, breakups. He takes everything so hard.</p><p> </p><p>on the other hand - he is currently not speaking to girlfriend. He is angry. All he will tell me is that she said something to difficult child's friend that she shouldn't of. Not about anyone else, about herself. I don't get it.</p><p> </p><p>His phone messages, prior to him shutting off his phone, said, "I'm sorry", "what can I do", and over and over nonstop. I did talk to difficult child. He of all people should know how it feels. I have no idea what she said, but tried to talk to difficult child about how everyone says things they regret. It is alright for him to let her know he is angry, and hurt if that is the case. However he needs to not be angry a long time. She said she is sorry, she knows he is angry. Move on. Anger was his biggest problem at one time. i don't want it to return in any form. And, when a girl, be it her or another break up with him...I am really afraid of his reaction then.</p><p> </p><p>easy child just breezed through his teen years unnoticed. didn't seem to be any issues with him, but difficult child was born when easy child was 12. We had problems with difficult child since day one.</p><p> </p><p>easy child always seems to be on the "dumped" side of a relationship. Hurts to see him hurt.</p><p>Don't want to even think of difficult child in that situation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 140151"] I know they are supervised, obviously not as much as they should be. I know he is not allowed there on some days when mom is working late, or running errands. We do talk often. He is such a little 8th grader. Hard for me to see him even hugging someone. I am afaid of his reaction to hormones, love, breakups. He takes everything so hard. on the other hand - he is currently not speaking to girlfriend. He is angry. All he will tell me is that she said something to difficult child's friend that she shouldn't of. Not about anyone else, about herself. I don't get it. His phone messages, prior to him shutting off his phone, said, "I'm sorry", "what can I do", and over and over nonstop. I did talk to difficult child. He of all people should know how it feels. I have no idea what she said, but tried to talk to difficult child about how everyone says things they regret. It is alright for him to let her know he is angry, and hurt if that is the case. However he needs to not be angry a long time. She said she is sorry, she knows he is angry. Move on. Anger was his biggest problem at one time. i don't want it to return in any form. And, when a girl, be it her or another break up with him...I am really afraid of his reaction then. easy child just breezed through his teen years unnoticed. didn't seem to be any issues with him, but difficult child was born when easy child was 12. We had problems with difficult child since day one. easy child always seems to be on the "dumped" side of a relationship. Hurts to see him hurt. Don't want to even think of difficult child in that situation. [/QUOTE]
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