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<blockquote data-quote="mom23gsfg" data-source="post: 140191" data-attributes="member: 4445"><p>just a little friendly warning .... children do look at themselves as older than they actually are ...just look around the girls and boys look like they are 18 when they are only 12 or 13 . and far more developed. when i think back on my own childhood when i look at these kids it scares me because i know all too well what can happen.... i was having sex at 13 and ended up pregnant at 14 ...i thought i was a woman .. i look at the pics i have and im shocked i was pretty much still a baby myself.... </p><p>and though most parents are in the dark about this kids are having sex at ages even at the tender age of 11 at school and ect....Ive heard my daughters' friends talking and most of these girls and boys are even talking about babies!and marraige! i went to pick up stephanie at school the other day for a doctor app. and i was shocked at the girls that where also pregnant. i was even more shocked when one girl looked at me and said" i was trying to get pregnant but me and the guy i was planning with broke up."i guess she thought i was cool because i look pretty young .. so i looked at her and said" first you need to finish school and maybe some college and get a house with a good job, whatever youre feeling right now i know its probly not good about yourself but a baby makes things harder ..dont look at a baby for someone to love you, love yourself. whatever problems you are having ,you can make them better . its not fair to you or a baby to bring them in this world when youre not ready. make something of yourself first. and have a childhood . " i also told her i was helping stephanie but, she was still going to have it rough with help..... later when i was talking to stephanie about it i found out this girl was in the childrens home and just wanted a way out. </p><p> </p><p> most kids have sex because of two reasons # 1 because everyone else is doing it and they are pressured into it # 2 because to replace the family they dont have ...which is what most likely is going on with this girl. </p><p>and i guess theres still the biggest reason... because their horemones are raging! </p><p>and most parents wouldnt agree with me ..but a hickey is one of the first warning signs. so id atleast give him a good talk and some protection (just in case ...because when did our children ever listen to our warnings anyways?)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom23gsfg, post: 140191, member: 4445"] just a little friendly warning .... children do look at themselves as older than they actually are ...just look around the girls and boys look like they are 18 when they are only 12 or 13 . and far more developed. when i think back on my own childhood when i look at these kids it scares me because i know all too well what can happen.... i was having sex at 13 and ended up pregnant at 14 ...i thought i was a woman .. i look at the pics i have and im shocked i was pretty much still a baby myself.... and though most parents are in the dark about this kids are having sex at ages even at the tender age of 11 at school and ect....Ive heard my daughters' friends talking and most of these girls and boys are even talking about babies!and marraige! i went to pick up stephanie at school the other day for a doctor app. and i was shocked at the girls that where also pregnant. i was even more shocked when one girl looked at me and said" i was trying to get pregnant but me and the guy i was planning with broke up."i guess she thought i was cool because i look pretty young .. so i looked at her and said" first you need to finish school and maybe some college and get a house with a good job, whatever youre feeling right now i know its probly not good about yourself but a baby makes things harder ..dont look at a baby for someone to love you, love yourself. whatever problems you are having ,you can make them better . its not fair to you or a baby to bring them in this world when youre not ready. make something of yourself first. and have a childhood . " i also told her i was helping stephanie but, she was still going to have it rough with help..... later when i was talking to stephanie about it i found out this girl was in the childrens home and just wanted a way out. most kids have sex because of two reasons # 1 because everyone else is doing it and they are pressured into it # 2 because to replace the family they dont have ...which is what most likely is going on with this girl. and i guess theres still the biggest reason... because their horemones are raging! and most parents wouldnt agree with me ..but a hickey is one of the first warning signs. so id atleast give him a good talk and some protection (just in case ...because when did our children ever listen to our warnings anyways?) [/QUOTE]
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