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difficult child and quitting her job - It was all a lie and I am boiling.
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<blockquote data-quote="dashcat" data-source="post: 543177" data-attributes="member: 9175"><p>Yes, I am furious with DEX but there's no talking to him. Secrets are a big thing in his FOO and he has many truth issues himself. </p><p></p><p>Wits, She lives iwth me. Moved in in April after living with boyfriend did notwork out. Took her in, let her slide on rent for a fwe months (she got tattoos and a nose piercing with her "savings"). Began a reduced rent on sliding scale (increase each month) to encourage herto save. Then she quits her job and lies about it, living here and going off to work each day to have fun with the boyfriend.</p><p></p><p>We have a agreement with a two night overnight limit. She says it's the resonsbile thing with drinking and driving and I did allow that. Still, she has managed to stretch it to include spending the nght at DEX's or his girlfriend's,claiming they're "family" so it doesn't count. It doens't help that DEX and girlfriend think I'm ridiculous for imposing such restraints on an "adult". This charade about the job may be the thing that breaks the came's back.</p><p></p><p>Tonight is one of her "nights" ...she left at 2:00 whih I think is stretching it a bit ..esp since today was the first day that I knew she was unemployed and she was to be working around here. She went to the therapist, then applied for a job and was off. </p><p></p><p>When she comes home tomorrrow, I'm most likely (hope I stay strong on this) going to sit her down and tell her this breach of trust is too much. Since I cannot trust her, she will have to make other permanent living arrangments until she can prove trustworthy. Words will not be enough for this.</p><p></p><p>And yes, CJane, I'm allowing myself a weepy wallow night. Tomorow is a new day and I'll be back to my strong, warrior self.</p><p></p><p>Thanks all. I cn tell lying is a huge trigger in this forum. We've all been hurt by it.</p><p></p><p>Dash</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dashcat, post: 543177, member: 9175"] Yes, I am furious with DEX but there's no talking to him. Secrets are a big thing in his FOO and he has many truth issues himself. Wits, She lives iwth me. Moved in in April after living with boyfriend did notwork out. Took her in, let her slide on rent for a fwe months (she got tattoos and a nose piercing with her "savings"). Began a reduced rent on sliding scale (increase each month) to encourage herto save. Then she quits her job and lies about it, living here and going off to work each day to have fun with the boyfriend. We have a agreement with a two night overnight limit. She says it's the resonsbile thing with drinking and driving and I did allow that. Still, she has managed to stretch it to include spending the nght at DEX's or his girlfriend's,claiming they're "family" so it doesn't count. It doens't help that DEX and girlfriend think I'm ridiculous for imposing such restraints on an "adult". This charade about the job may be the thing that breaks the came's back. Tonight is one of her "nights" ...she left at 2:00 whih I think is stretching it a bit ..esp since today was the first day that I knew she was unemployed and she was to be working around here. She went to the therapist, then applied for a job and was off. When she comes home tomorrrow, I'm most likely (hope I stay strong on this) going to sit her down and tell her this breach of trust is too much. Since I cannot trust her, she will have to make other permanent living arrangments until she can prove trustworthy. Words will not be enough for this. And yes, CJane, I'm allowing myself a weepy wallow night. Tomorow is a new day and I'll be back to my strong, warrior self. Thanks all. I cn tell lying is a huge trigger in this forum. We've all been hurt by it. Dash [/QUOTE]
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