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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 534380" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>So sorry to hear this. It really blows when they self-sabotage and don't want to do anything to help themselves.</p><p></p><p>Though, I do wonder if that laughing to this type of things is a simple self-defense strategy. They know they did wrong, they are ashamed but are not able to admit to it even themselves (because then they kind of would need to take some responsibility.) But they do feel bad for what they have done and how their live is and that is why they call mom instead of looser friend. They know mom doesn't approve and they want to hear it too, maybe to externalize that feeling that makes them know they did wrong. But maybe I'm just an optimist and in reality they just don't get it. I don't know.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 534380, member: 14557"] So sorry to hear this. It really blows when they self-sabotage and don't want to do anything to help themselves. Though, I do wonder if that laughing to this type of things is a simple self-defense strategy. They know they did wrong, they are ashamed but are not able to admit to it even themselves (because then they kind of would need to take some responsibility.) But they do feel bad for what they have done and how their live is and that is why they call mom instead of looser friend. They know mom doesn't approve and they want to hear it too, maybe to externalize that feeling that makes them know they did wrong. But maybe I'm just an optimist and in reality they just don't get it. I don't know. [/QUOTE]
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